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Author Topic: How can I overcome my foot and masturbation fetish?

April 19, 2018, 03:15:32 PM
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"Temptation is everywhere" has become my daily phrase that I'm about to write a song
about it! Everywhere I turn, there's a beautiful girl or woman. I even get insulted by them at times when trying my luck.

Dear friends, how can I overcome this plague of lust-I also have a footfetish and masturbation has become a part of me. Please advise,thanks.
« Last Edit: August 26, 2018, 04:31:33 PM by Staff »

April 19, 2018, 03:20:46 PM
Reply #1


for you to stop negative habits that leads you to sin. For me just you stop watching porn or any video or images that make you lust. just exercise every day and turn your vision on to something that positive.

April 21, 2018, 02:57:06 PM
Reply #2


I recommend that you try to make your self busy and productive. Try using your hours with things and activities that interest you like sports, games and entertainment. What you have is normal to some extent, just be sure not to go beyond the boundaries of the law.

April 27, 2018, 10:11:24 PM
Reply #3

Patrick Y

Be really careful with this stuff.  I mean, gawking can lead to stalking and/or harassment accusations.   In fact, there's a good chance this stuff can get you banned from stores or even jailed.

May 16, 2018, 08:07:01 AM
Reply #4


I saw this one guy at college act all lustful.  ;D  It was funny cause, even though I know all men feel that way, I haven't really seen it!  Anyway, it sure is dorky looking from an outsider POV.  ::)

July 28, 2018, 03:38:29 PM
Reply #5


that is hard to avoid bro, but my advice is prayer, do this everyday or go to church and confess or ask advice to the priest.

July 28, 2018, 06:18:53 PM
Reply #6


Make yourself busy. Engage in more productive activities and stay away from pornography or anything related to it. Visiting a psychiatrist may also be an option.

August 12, 2018, 06:39:58 PM
Reply #7


It is okay to look only. But having that temptation look is a different story. If you are taken, it's okay to glance at someone you don't know right just across the street or anywhere where your attention get caught up by what you see and think is beautiful. I believe it's our mind that gives the power to think of other things besides from just only looking. Everyone appreciates beautiful faces. But it's the look that counts whether you are really looking to a face or just a part of someones body.

August 25, 2018, 12:09:11 PM
Reply #8


Well, it's normal I think.  It really hard to avoid that.  A simple appreciation of beauty is good for us, it means we still have good eyesight or vision.  But we should know our limitation.  Woman has different kind of approach depends on how you appreciate their beauty.  So just be careful.

August 28, 2018, 12:01:55 PM
Reply #9


Make your self-busy and enjoy the things together with your friends.  You should avoid the porn site, and maybe the last is, you need the girlfriend.  Be active in sports, workouts and do some extra activities like outdoor sports.

August 28, 2018, 12:36:34 PM
Reply #10


I don't really think that you have a problem. I think its just the stage of life that you are in. All you need to do is respect women and their space. If you approach a woman and she does not feel you, walk away, on the other hand if she accepts you are good to go.I also don't think masturbation is a bad thing or something to be ashamed of. It may indicate that you need to be close to someone. Foot fetish is also not a bad thing. I also think that both will pass, especially if you get into an intimate relationship, that fulfills your need. This maybe your problem now.


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