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February 08, 2019, 09:54:43 AM
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im 23 and my ex is 20, we had a 2 year relationship and we both have no regrets.
we split up in august of 2018 because both of us felt that the love was kinda gone and we got on each others nerves too much
but we decided to stay very good friends, and it was fine for half a year.

she get together with a douchbag we both know for a while. he hasnt even asked me if it was okey, since we know eachother well i hoped he might.
but the point is. my heart hurts more than it ever has in my life. it wasnt even that bad a week after the breakup.
and because me and my ex are still friends, she tells me everything about it (though she still claims to not know if its a serieus thing)
worst of all... i believe im in love again. and i cant stop thinking about her.

any recomendations? i still care about her and want her to be happy, but i dont like seeing her with this douchbag.

February 08, 2019, 11:55:56 AM
Reply #1


sorry you are hurting like this. it shall pass

February 08, 2019, 01:56:33 PM
Reply #2


He had no obligation to tell you whom he was dating, unless you were VERY close friends, which I take it you weren't.

If you broke up, you should stay broken up.  That means no contact.  Contact after a breakup only prolongs the agony.  Stop contact with her and give yourself a short time to grieve.  And then move on.
"But the rain is full of ghosts tonight, that tap upon the glass and listen for reply."

-Edna St. Vincent Millay

March 10, 2019, 07:21:59 AM
Reply #3


- I don't believe the thing "stay as a friend", people usually end up either more having their heart are more broken or getting back together.

- I also suspect the feeling you have currently is "love". Once you were together and now she is with someone else. Things/ people usually seem to be more attractive and appealing when they belong to other people. However, if you still think it's love, you mentioned it might not be a serious relationship what they have, so you might have a better chance there. Why don't you go and talk to her?

April 17, 2019, 01:33:57 PM
Reply #4


I think you should forget about her and try to find another girl. I know it is hard, bro, trust me I was i same situation but it will pass.

April 20, 2019, 05:47:44 AM
Reply #5


I don’t intend to sound harsh, just realistic. You shouldn’t have stayed friends afterwards as I feel that can only lead to bad things. When you broke up, you broke up and neither of you have any rights to get annoyed or jealous of one another after a breakup, no matter how short or long ago it was.


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