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Author Topic: Girl on Facebook-Do I have any chance?

February 27, 2020, 01:39:17 PM
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So, here’s my situation.  There’s this girl who I’ve been FB friends with for a year and several months now who I’m kinda infatuated with.  The posts I’ve seen of hers have led me to believe that she’s a really interesting person, and I would love to have the chance to get to know her better.

A little background: I met her in late ‘18 at a Halloween party, and was immediately attracted to her.  We had a pleasant enough interaction, but we didn’t get deep into conversation or anything.  She really spent most of the time talking with her best friend, who she’d come with.  I friended her on FB a few weeks later; even though we had had only limited in-person communication, she accepted my friend request pretty quickly.  I later saw her at a Super Bowl party in early ‘19, but we didn’t talk at all, even briefly.  This was partly because I was too chicken to even say hi (I kinda clammed up when she arrived), but she didn’t say anything to me either, sticking close to the best friend and another friend of hers for most of the time.  Given her behavior those two times, I get the sense that she’s a bit situationally shy and is not real good at readily conversing with people she doesn’t know well, especially at large gatherings.  At least, I hope it’s just that and not that something about me turned her off. 😉  Anyway, I haven’t seen her in person since, and we hadn’t talked or interacted on FB this whole time.

Until a couple weeks ago, that is.  I saw she had started a little graphic design outfit, which she had invited all her friends to like.  I did, and a few days later, I liked a post with some work she had done for an up-and-coming rock singer, and then commented and told her that I liked her designs and also the songs by the artist that I had listened to.  I was hoping to get her to say a little something in response that might have even led to a discussion via messenger.  Unfortunately, she just thanked me and that was it.  I haven’t liked or commented on any posts or stories of hers since.  I’m thinking she had probably forgotten about me between the SB party and now, and I guess at the very least, that little interaction reminded her that I exist, hahaha.  But yeah, I’m trying to figure out whether it’s even worth pursuing anything with this girl.  If so, I guess it’s going to be a matter of playing the long game: just liking and commenting on more of her posts and stories and kind of softening the ground for an eventual messenger conversation.

And in case you were wondering, yes, her relationship status on FB is single.  It has been the whole time I’ve been friends with her.

What do you guys think?  Am I barking up the wrong tree, or should I give it a shot?  (To say I’ve never been real good at this is an understatement: I only had one girlfriend, back in high school, and am in my late 30’s now, if you can believe that.)

April 19, 2020, 01:27:36 AM
Reply #1


Hi rebelx0024,

You should give it a try. Worth it or not, you never know unless you have tried it.

If she is a shy and introvert girl, you should go reasearch about her and create a common interest between you and her. Start a conversation like "Hi, xxx. I saw you post a xxx. (Are you a fan of xxx as well? Do you like xxx as well?) You seems quite shy to me" Then continue from there. After some topic, end the conversation by yourselves saying "I got to go and do xxx." , "Nice chatting with you." & "See u. Have a nice day."

April 27, 2020, 02:33:03 PM
Reply #2


Hey, i'm new here, this is my 1st time being on...I wanted to reply to you because after checking out your profile, I wanted to say hello =) My name is olivia & i would like to get to know you more, & hopefully you as well? I wanted to see if you wanted to possibly chat right now (i am live in my video chat room...which you can sign up for free by clicking this link: https://bit.ly/cumplaywithme4free , and after signing up look me up(my username is browniezuza)) I hope to see you soon, I'll be waiting


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