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July 05, 2020, 12:43:01 PM
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Jonesygeez


I dont want to make this war and peace but the subject is long and short of it.

We have been together 4 years, married for 2.  Over the last year we have had numerous rows, she has issues with drugs, drink and gambling and that hasnt helped.  It got so bad that i decided to move out with my eldest (from a prev relationship) and she lives in our house with her 2.

To her credit, she's given up all the drink, drugs and gambling, but I am not sure if i can go back.  I am alot happier now we living apart, albeit i see her tuesdays, fridays and saturdays.  I do still love her but feel like ive got the balance now.  of course she wants me back living there.

Another issue that worries me is the number of people she's fallen out with and dislike her.  My mum, my bro, my son, some friends girlfriends, he ex etc etc and it makes me wonder if love is blind and i am not really seeing the real her?

Feels like so much damage is done but im also not ready to end it in full.  Shes never invited to anything anymore and i just feel like this is never going to work

help!?

August 17, 2020, 05:12:17 PM
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August 18, 2020, 08:36:41 PM
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uds641


Tough situation, to be sure.

I feel that if you are going to be committed to this woman, you need to have her back 100% percent, no matter how many people don't like her. After all, your wife or significant other should come before everyone else, in my opinion.

If you're not willing to have her back 100%, against all others and through all of her issues, which you say yourself she is working on, then I believe you may have your answer.

October 23, 2020, 11:36:53 AM
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beardedbear


Yeah, this is clearly understandable! Your family sees things are they are, not though loving rose-colored glasses. So they realize this woman sucks energy out of you. Don't know what to advise here. You either divorce her and find a new wife, or tell her that she must go to rehab. She can try to earn money on her gambling hobby, for example she can write articles and post here https://slotsjudge.com/online-slots/medium-volatility-slots/ and they will pay her for that. This is what I did and how I earned. As for other addictions, hmm. Can you imagine the mother of your children hanging around stoned? If not, send her to rehab. I hope this helps.

November 07, 2020, 10:42:24 AM
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November 16, 2020, 06:06:22 AM
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December 15, 2020, 08:23:59 AM
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teem0


Trully a very difficult situation for you and your family.Gamble addiction isn't something easy to fight but if you still love her you should back her up.Try using gambling as a hobby,i mean find a new online casino which is relaxing,has a lot of slot games and it's easy to use.I can recommend you Betwinner Live it has 1$ minimum deposit and daily free games and rewards which i think will help her put it i a daily basis something like a hobby.

December 20, 2020, 12:27:32 PM
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ZoeDenver


This is really a big problem, i am sorry for you...   For me the fact that you feel better now that you do not live together, means that maybe the love has past and this is for your own good. As for your wife, she needs to find herself again, and you can be there for her supporting her, but not as a husband anymore. Hope I helped...  In the mean time, you can check roulette numbers

December 21, 2020, 11:01:30 AM
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You should understand if you love her. If you love her, you should not care about the opinions of others. First of all, you should deal with your feelings. In my life was a period when I cannot understand whether I love my partner or only affection remained in our relationship. This site breakupangels.com helped me deal with my feelings. There I found really a lot of useful information for those who have reached a dead end in a relationship and do not know where to go next. I hope you can also find useful information there.
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December 23, 2020, 05:50:25 PM
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MarkUltra


Such a difficult situation. Hopefully, you'll manage to get through it because some of my friends who experienced similar things couldn't make it and ultimately parted.

January 10, 2021, 06:27:13 AM
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Solom


Maybe you just need to treat her better and let her look after herself? Making up and change some things like hairstyles  or something? You know if girls stop looking after themselves thats a bad sign so you better do not let it happen. Recommend her this link with asymmetrical pixie https://www.hadviser.com/long-pixie-cuts/ and let her buy whatever she wants and she will cheer again soon.
« Last Edit: January 11, 2021, 07:26:28 AM by Solom »

January 20, 2021, 05:52:29 AM
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lolapaluuza


I think that you probably need a family therapist and you'd better hurry up. If you are late, you will need a NYC Family law attorney https://www.shtarklaw.com/services/family-law/ and it will not be funny at all. Sometimes, it is easier to solve all family problems at the very beginning. At the end, they can destroy everything.

January 27, 2021, 06:48:56 PM
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bigal838




I can relate to what you said.
The part about how she's never invited to family functions 'cause  your family doesn't like her.
I can't bring my gf to family gatherings because my brother can't stand her and the last time I was at his place for Christmas morning breakfast,
her absence was VERY noticeable and it left me wishing that I was with someone else who WOULD be welcome in the home of my brother and his wife.

I think that you should probably cut her loose and move on.
Because think of how much more enjoyable it would be for you if you were with a woman who IS welcome at your family gatherings!!

February 01, 2021, 05:13:36 AM
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Josephi


As for me, I think that it is better to have balance in your relationship

February 14, 2021, 08:21:58 AM
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Bubuka


Must say the same like above, you found your balance and comfort out of that.

February 19, 2021, 03:40:31 PM
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JayCee51


I've had two similar situations.

1) I dated a girl who's family initially loved me. However, they were crazy. Her dad snooped through my phone and her iPad and found out we had sex. This was even worse because she was a virgin when we met. They really hated me after that. It was extremely difficult. They made life hell for us. Even threatened to stop paying for her tuition. Eventually, it just became too much, I couldn't take the stress anymore, I was getting anxious and agitated and grumpy. Even though I loved her and dated her longer than anyone else, I was putting less effort into the relationship. She eventually broke up with me because of it. What I learned from it was relationships are going to be difficult when your family and friends, those closest to you, don't like that person.

2) I have a friend I've known for 14 years now. He started dating a girl who used to be really into me and I just didn't care for, but they hit it off. After a while, it became apparent she was treating him terribly, and was even getting mad when he got her flowers because he did it so often. Just not a good time. We all told him he needed to get away but he never had the courage to break it off. Eventually they got engaged and he asked me to be the best man. I agreed, even though I didn't care for her, because he's my friend and he assured me she was coming around and they were working it out. They end up having a huge fight and it looks like the end. He's asking me if I want to move in with him, and I was really hesitant to do it. Finally I agreed, and the weekend I was supposed to move in, he's suddenly ignoring my calls. Turns out he had made up with her and went away for the holiday with her and her family. I was so mad, I didn't talk to him for a long time. They ended up not even having a ceremony and went to the courthouse to get married. Recently, we found out she cheated on him. He was devastated. All I could think was if he had left her years ago when we all told him he should, he could be with someone else and be a lot happier now instead of going through this pain. He's my friend, she burned a bridge with me, but for his sake, I still tolerate her and am cordial with her to not stir the bucket. Not sure if your family or friends are willing to do the same.

So yeah, tough situation, but if you're happier when you're not with her, I think that's your answer. Gotta do what makes you happy.

 

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