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Author Topic: Does girls like shy guys?

January 13, 2020, 01:22:42 PM
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I am a very shy type guy even I can't sit in front of a girl on a table, I am 22 years old and still am single. I have tried many times to build some confidence in me but am failed. Now I am very fade up from my behavior I want a girlfriend in my life. Now I have a plan for me. I think I should try online dating. What you think guys is it possible for me to find a GF through online dating?

January 14, 2020, 12:31:26 AM
Reply #1


Really depends on the gal.

When I was younger (your age) I was relatively shy, while I don’t think quite as shy as you are by the sounds of it I was still pretty timid around women when initially meeting them. I still ended up with a few relationships before I exited my shell though. I used to go through the mutual friends channel to make the introduction. If I could get a date out of it I knew the first one would be rough but then I’d get more comfortable and it was easier. There’s someone out there for everyone, I haven’t found mine yet but someday I will.

January 16, 2020, 04:21:48 PM
Reply #2


most likely they would not favorize shy men in the group of bunch of guys and even if you look good it will be harder for women to come to you because she wont be comfortable because she does not know how you act and what are you like or what will you do if she says something to you.
I will tell you a story from when i was 17, so i was in the club with bunch of my friends witch were like really handsome dudes and definitely not shy, okay so they were dancing with bunch of girls but I, I was standing at the table alone with my phone because i was shy to dance or anything like that and 20 minutes passed as i was alone, but then some girl like came near me, I mean like very very near and she had a phone in her hand and wanned to take a pic, we could not talk because music was very loud so she added me on instagram and we chatted there like messages;
whats your name, where you from and stuff like that so she took few pics and she said im cute or handsome i dont even remember but at the time i was looking great and i was comfortable when i was talking to a girl because before that i had few girls who were like lessons to me so, I mean you gotta learn on someone its just like that i mean I was never rude or anything like that but i just learned how to kiss, talk to a girl and basic stuff like that once you get one girl for 10 months it will be huge expeirience and lesson to you and from then youll know almost everything, I mean not every girl thinks or wants the same, I recommend getting few of them before you marry or anything like that so you can learn, girls are very dumb and playful creatures but they can hurt you easily so dont get attached that easy you gotta see if you like her just because of her look (*not very important for the future and life*) or her perosona (very important)
Most of the girls just want like ''Friend'' who will kiss her or touch her, I mean whatever she wants you will do it even if she says you are friends but dont go all in like you brain tells you...
i think youll get it man good luck if need any advice here's my number +385 996469420.

April 08, 2020, 08:37:44 AM
Reply #3


I am a very shy type guy even I can't sit in front of a girl on a table, I am 22 years old and still am single. I have tried many times to build some confidence in me but am failed. Now I am very fade up from my behavior I want a girlfriend in my life. Now I have a plan for me. I think I should try online dating. What you think guys is it possible for me to find a GF through online dating?
I am also a very shy boy. I am single for the last two years. My ex cheated on me in a very bad way, and now I’m fully fed up with the behavior of women here in America. Now I have decided to build a relationship with a foreign girl. Next month, I’m going to the United Arab emirates to spend my holidays. So I hope I’ll find a good partner there. But I don’t know anything about Arabian women's nature and interests. No idea how I’ll find a girl for a date or long term relationship there in UAE. I found an article https://online4.love/arabic-dating-sites/ that is specifically written about dating with Arabic girls. what you think the information in this article is based on facts? Is there anyone who has dating experience there? Is it easy to find an Arabic babe there in UAE? or should I change my destination? Your advice will be very meaningful to me.
« Last Edit: April 09, 2020, 07:49:22 AM by nasty67 »

April 08, 2020, 11:32:20 AM
Reply #4


Honestly there are every types of people in the world and everybody deserves to be loved. I think a girl can like a shy guy. It depends of the girl. Girls can like the shy type but there is a minos. If a girl can't count on him on certain situation because he's shy it's going to be a problem for the girl I think. At this point, I think it's a self-confidence,self-love problem and fear of rejection and if I can give you one advice is to fix your problem about your person before getting in a relationship. For a girl or a man. Because being shy is not a weakness, for me it depends on how you live it. If it stops you from being happy and having peace with yourself than there's a problem.
For girls and boys it's the same problem, how to talk and and build something with someone. I believe trying to talk in your everyday life (not flirting to begin with) to girls can help you a lot to not be scared of girls.
The last thing I want to say that it's not because someone hurt you, that everybody will hurt in the future. There might be scars but don't let your emotionnal bagguage and fears control you and miss great opportinuty with someone. In every relationship, you're going to be hurt but that doesn't mean it's worthless in your life. At some point, life has no meaning without any types of love.
Online dating can be a start, to be fair, if it's what put you out of your comfort zone. Then, in the future you will meet girls, talking with them and everything and you will be less scared. Work with what you already have, then things will happen.

Keep us posted
Live. Just live.

April 09, 2020, 07:37:42 PM
Reply #5


I think you are shy because you something tells you that the girl wont like your personality or something else about you.If you can get over that I think you wont have a problem talking to a girl.Maybe you have previous bad experiences,thats ok you can try again and again and again. The way to build up confidence is to be yourself but that doesnt mean that you cant change yourself so you can like yourself more if you know what I mean.

Anyways best of luck!

May 22, 2020, 07:23:38 AM
Reply #6


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May 23, 2020, 10:03:12 AM
Reply #7


Honestly, no I don't think they do... I'm quite shy myself and in every relationship I've noticed it's the first thing I automatically try to overcome/hide. It's really hard sometimes, but in my experience I've just noticed too often that it's a turnoff for women, especially when you start to come out of the little 2-person bubble when you start dating. Like when you're introduced to the family or friends or whatever. Maybe this is different with girls that are really shy themselves...

May 23, 2020, 06:47:30 PM
Reply #8


Well, why do you underline your so-called "drawbacks" instead of the benefits?
move the focus  ;)


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