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Author Topic: Did I move quick or is she uninterested?

January 22, 2019, 09:02:23 AM
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JustARandomGuy


So I approached this girl I like (shes shy) she was nervous to talk to me at first and her body language was weird. We got along great and we talked and walked around the campus in lunch and had an amazing conversation of many topics oh I even made her laugh A LOT too and we made great eye contact and always looked me when we were walking. I then took her to class when the bell rang and asked her to add me on snapchat at first she hesitated then she said she would add me the next day but I kind of insisted her to take it (ik big mistake) so she agreed. I wrote my snapchat down on a piece of paper but she didn’t even take it and said that she would add me over the weekend which she did not. What should I do? My friend said I was a fool because I moved quickly and I pushed her to add me when she didn’t want to. What should I do? Should I talk to her as if nothing happened and yes I will take things slow next time I learned my lesson.

January 22, 2019, 06:39:36 PM
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SarahLancaster


Yes.  Continue talking to her and don't mention snapchat again.
"But the rain is full of ghosts tonight, that tap upon the glass and listen for reply."

-Edna St. Vincent Millay

March 11, 2019, 01:29:36 AM
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TheDominator19


Continue to talk to her and when she starts to open up more take a chance at getting her number. Snapchat is fine but getting her number means a little more.

March 11, 2019, 11:37:20 AM
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1sttimebachelor


Keep talking to her and i wouldn't mention snapchat again either

March 19, 2019, 12:47:56 AM
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DOPELifeCoaching


Ok you definitely moved too quick bro. Women especially can sense these things and can smell them from a mile away. She can tell that you're way too interested and you're coming off too strong. Good news is, this can easily be reversed. There's steps to this. Fortunately, I'm a professional dating coach so I will certainly be able to help you with this. First thing you should do is, when you see her again, act like nothing happened and don't you dare ask about why she didn't add you or whatnot. Next, if you see that she's not giving you the level of interest that YOU WANT, back off entirely. Smile when you make eye contact but back off. It's a test to see if she's willing to put in at least some effort. If she cares at least a bit, she will notice and try to gain your attention back. If she doesn't care, she wont notice anything and will not even say hi to you when she sees you. I can give you more help, but to be 100% certain of your success, you need to book a coaching session on my website at www.dopelifecoaching.com. I can't wait to help you with this. You will be stunned at what you can achieve.

 

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