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July 04, 2019, 03:26:31 PM
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drivenfuture


So theres this girl who I worked with for a year and we were really good friends, but she has a boyfriend. After she quit, I visited her new bar for a few weeks, but I realized I was getting too close or having feelings, (she also seemed to have some sort of feelings for me as well, but not sure), so I backed off and didnt visit her. One week later she says she missed me and wanted to get coffee. I agreed and set a time for 4pm at a specific place. 2 hours before she cancels with a weird excuse about her boyfriend. She says raincheck but no reschedule. I say I understand, hope hes ok, and then stop talking to her. 2 weeks go by, she says (my name)! Havent seen you in a while, how are you? After about an hour I say great! Mention I did standup the previous night, and ask her how she is and what she has going on this week. No response and that was 3 days ago. What is going on with this girl?

July 04, 2019, 08:47:27 PM
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Classic Man 777


She sounds really confused. It might be best for you to respect her relationship with her boyfriend and move on. Don't chase the wind aka don't try to keep up with the elusive girl.

July 21, 2019, 11:10:48 PM
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boyboyboy


Perhaps she's decided to stay commited to her boyfriend, and believes that the best way to do so would be to avoid contact with those who she's felt attracted towards?

July 28, 2019, 03:44:28 PM
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drivenfuture


well idk but I saw they just broke up lol.  but I still feel like I should wait for her to reach out to me based on the flake.

 

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