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Author Topic: Commitment issues

January 27, 2019, 12:23:30 PM
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Confused557


Hi all!
Long story, i am dating a girl that is 19 years old, I am 23 years old. We are talking to each other EVERYDAY by text for 6 months, and we hang out often. I have a nice job, but she doesnt work. I have mild anxiety disorder.

So, lets go:
Not the first time, we arranged to go out and have some time together, but on thr last minute she just says that dont have money to go out, and feels very bad if I pay something for her, even a taxi. I think this is a very nasty attitude, because I am always a nice person, I always try to solve everything, and she just says NO when it pleases her.

Then we had a deep conversation about that, it ended up with she said she really wants to go on something SERIOUS, but any trouble she finds we must just break up. Then I asked her if she wants just casual sex, then she said NO, that she really wants to go on a serious relationship, but really doesnt want any effort, and wheh she feels that it isnt going well, we just should part oir ways and say goodbye.

Man I already went through many relationships, but this one is very hard to understand. I know she has still some baggage from her last relationship, and this-and-that.

She says she loves everything from me, that really wants to stay with me, but, really, it only does look like that she wants someone to please her when she needs.

What do you guys think about it? I really enjoy being with her, we have much in common. Does it look like she is testing my dignity? Or am I pushing her too much?
Should I give her a chance and enjoy the moment? Should I stay with her and try to "change" her mind"? Or should I kill my misery and go on and find another someone?

January 27, 2019, 10:12:53 PM
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SarahLancaster


What exactly do you have in common with her?
"But the rain is full of ghosts tonight, that tap upon the glass and listen for reply."

-Edna St. Vincent Millay

January 28, 2019, 11:37:43 PM
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Confused557


What exactly do you have in common with her?

We like same things, our conversations flows very nice, like, we can talk about anything that comes from our minds. Even we are both goofs, we love animals.

 

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