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Author Topic: Best Comebacks for: "Just Don't Expect Too Much" ?

February 05, 2019, 05:26:36 PM
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Alcoholc-69-x


Hi Everyone! I met this girl for a second date and everything seemed going great. Naturally things weren't going as great as i thought since at the end she said: "just don't expect too much"
I said i didn't expect anything, just fun. Of course that was a lie.
I kissed her on the lips and told her to contact me and left.

What should i reply in the future? And what does it exactly mean? All the time she was giving me all the signs of interest and now this?

"don't expect too much" = Don't think you can sleep with me/ Don't expect relationship/ I have low self esteem and am insecure and therefore afraid?

Is it better to never contact her again?

February 05, 2019, 06:49:24 PM
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My first thought was, "how did the kiss go?" Did she respond and kiss back or was it all you? I'm not sure the kiss will tell you all you need to know about her words of not expecting much but it might be a clue. My first thought was self-esteem, especially if she seem to be into the date and you. When a woman says "not to expect much" what she may mean is "don't expect sex" but again it could be because of her self esteem. Not much to go on after one date so try again. As long as she keeps going out with you and you don't pressure her, you should eventually get the answers you want.

February 06, 2019, 11:40:56 AM
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Thanks this was a very useful answer!

This is how the kiss went:
She asked: "Should I kiss you or would that be inappropriate?"
Me joking: "Yes that would be inappropriate"

Then i kissed her for a while until she started smiling and said: "I thought it was inappropriate"
So it was me kissing her not the other way. (I should've waited for it or said something else) But my gut feeling says she liked it.
I'm pretty sure she has some problems or low self esteem so that may explain the "don't expect too much"

It's been 6 days now and still no messages. Isn't it safe to say she's not interested by now? I feel if i would contact her it would give me a weaker position? if a girl likes you, she'll put an effort into it, right?

February 07, 2019, 01:57:52 AM
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No contact her. Just be light about it. She may be thinking the same thing "if he likes me he'll put in the effort and call me". So call and be upbeat and maybe a little tease or something. Maybe something about that kiss. You know "hey, I was eating a Hershey Kiss but I remember your kiss was much sweeter" Half the battle is  interacting. As long as she keeps responding you can build from there.

I wish you luck.

February 07, 2019, 03:21:40 PM
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Thanks it was a usefal answer! At the moment I've decided not to do anything for now. Women that don't know what they want or are just fooling around are maybe not worth your time! Since i last saw her i've dated two other girls and they texted me after just two days asking me to meet again.
If you don't care too much and are completely relaxed= they want you
If you're trying something and showing signs you really like her or get stressed= they know it and you lose points

 

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