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Author Topic: Beautiful Woman vs Mother of Child

February 24, 2020, 06:14:45 PM
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BeenHereb4


The short story is I fell in Love with a coworker.  Although we never expressed it verbally or physically, we both just knew.  Months of lunches together, texting, and photo shoots (aspiring model)...  At the time, i was living with a LT GF.  Before I could end the LT relationship and truly pursue the beautiful model, my LT GF got pregnant.  So here we are 2 years later..  The model is now married with kids and I am living with my daughter and her mother.  The thing is... I have not been able to get past what I almost had.  We text infrequently and keep it platonic but it's not enough.  I want more and I think she may too. 

The twist is I now have a chance to transfer to her company and work in the same office.  Which would inevitably lead to another full fledged effort to pursue this beautiful woman.  But, this would definitely cause insane drama between my LT GF and i.  Maybe even lead to a broken home for my daughter.  And, there is nothing i wouldn't do to protect my child from negativity and the hard things in life.  But..  I can't get the what ifs out of my head.  Am i crazy to even take the chance? 


February 25, 2020, 03:19:51 AM
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Hungry_Doughboy


Yes 100% bats*it crazy. You should be grateful for what you have.

April 04, 2020, 06:56:48 AM
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SagLove44


My only advice is... don’t start a new chapter without ending the previous one. Ask yourself, do I love my life as it is? Am I feeling fulfilled? If not then move on. If you are happy & fulfilled but thinking oh what  if w that other girl,  well that will be a lifelong battle. You will come across MANY what ifs in life & things don’t always work out the way we envision them to.  Think more than you feel in this case.

 

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