Early last year I started a new job and was hired by our head of operations. At the time I was in a long term relationship and had a daughter with her. A couple of months into the job I noticed flirty glances from this woman who was very high up ini the company. The company is only around 45 people with 30 in our office. I work very closely with her and over course of last summer there were lots of very flirty looks, eye contact etc and flirty exchanges - however nothing happened as I was in a relationship.

My relationship did come to an end around August last year though and although I wanted to approach this woman I didn't for some obvious reasons. She was single at the time but I always had a feeling although it was obvious she wouldn't do anything. I was still living with my ex until I moved out in November and I told myself I would not approach this woman until I'd moved out. But by the time that happened She had met someone. And I didn't realise how much I liked her until then. It broke me, every day now I have to see her knowing she's with someone else. She still looked at me for a whilst but certainly this year hasn't at all!

I have dated this year and its taken my mind off her a little - its had to. But recently I've noticed the same woman at work started looking at me again then same way - this is very obvious to me - it is not the way you look at any other co-worker. I had thought she might have broken up with her boyfriend who she now lives with because its been so obvious again (and I am not looking for it either)

Last week, I went out with her and my boss after work and the three of us got pretty drunk. At one point we were left alone and I mentioned it. This is the first time we've ever spoken about it. She didn't admit it initially but did eventually and said we should go and meet to talk about it, she asked me to message her. When I woke up the next day messaging her seemed inappropriate so I left it. But this week at work its been really arkward and she's been very funny with me.

What the hell should I do now???

I am still attracted to her but she's clearly still with her boyfriend - I just don't understand if she's happy and hasn't looked at me the way she has all year - where these flirty looks and glances are coming from again!

it seems like she is interested I would approach her and at least talk to her maybe ask her to lunch or somethin