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September 11, 2018, 01:31:11 AM
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thordustin30


My ex-girlfriend and I reconnected recently. We message each other again and flirt occasionally. Kind of like the time before we got together. To cut the story short we agreed to try going out again. We’re going out a week from now and I’m pretty excited to meet her again, but REALLY nervous too. I don’t understand why I feel this way. We’ve been together before already but I don’t know. It still feels like the very first time. Lol. Everything seems a foreign to me again. Anyone got tips about going out on dates with exes?

September 11, 2018, 02:06:35 PM
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goodevening


My ex-girlfriend and I reconnected recently. We message each other again and flirt occasionally. Kind of like the time before we got together. To cut the story short we agreed to try going out again. We’re going out a week from now and I’m pretty excited to meet her again, but REALLY nervous too. I don’t understand why I feel this way. We’ve been together before already but I don’t know. It still feels like the very first time. Lol. Everything seems a foreign to me again. Anyone got tips about going out on dates with exes?

To be honest, as you feel quite nervous - this is most likely a good sign, because it just goes to show that you actually do like this girl.

We need to know more about your past relationship with her to be able to give you any meaningful advice.

Why did you break up? When did you break up?

You need to unsure that you put everything behind you though, and start fresh. Don't mention any negatives, previous arguments etc, do truly start fresh.

December 23, 2018, 01:42:07 PM
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ghednepo


Go for some place that is very memorable for both of you. Bring some of her favorites, Sing her favorite song, And Hug her tight to express that you really really love her

December 23, 2018, 11:27:57 PM
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faithuy56


My ex-girlfriend and I reconnected recently. We message each other again and flirt occasionally. Kind of like the time before we got together. To cut the story short we agreed to try going out again. We’re going out a week from now and I’m pretty excited to meet her again, but REALLY nervous too. I don’t understand why I feel this way. We’ve been together before already but I don’t know. It still feels like the very first time. Lol. Everything seems a foreign to me again. Anyone got tips about going out on dates with exes?
Just try to remember the things you did to her before. I believe you have done something that she likes. Just rekindle it. If it was through a date in the park or whatever you did before. Then tell her, do you know why I brought you here? This is a memorable place for me because this is the place where we first met or whatever. Just try to let her remember memorable events in your first relationship with her.

December 24, 2018, 01:01:53 AM
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NoviceNinja


Go for some place that is very memorable for both of you. Bring some of her favorites, Sing her favorite song, And Hug her tight to express that you really really love her

I agree with this one. Go to a place which is significant and relevant to your relationship, eat out at a restaurant she likes, watch a movie you feel she'll love, etc. It wouldn't be that hard since you know her already. All the best!

December 24, 2018, 11:54:23 AM
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ghednepo


I think you should bring her to a romantic date because first date is so memorable, anything can happen so do your best to make it sweet and remarkable

December 25, 2018, 07:33:53 AM
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Alpahatype01


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My ex-girlfriend and I reconnected recently. We message each other again and flirt occasionally. Kind of like the time before we got together. To cut the story short we agreed to try going out again. We’re going out a week from now and I’m pretty excited to meet her again, but REALLY nervous too. I don’t understand why I feel this way. We’ve been together before already but I don’t know. It still feels like the very first time. Lol. Everything seems a foreign to me again. Anyone got tips about going out on dates with exes?
Just keep it you. Whatever you do make sure she knows that the date is about her.

December 25, 2018, 10:17:07 AM
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menchuuy58


My ex-girlfriend and I reconnected recently. We message each other again and flirt occasionally. Kind of like the time before we got together. To cut the story short we agreed to try going out again. We’re going out a week from now and I’m pretty excited to meet her again, but REALLY nervous too. I don’t understand why I feel this way. We’ve been together before already but I don’t know. It still feels like the very first time. Lol. Everything seems a foreign to me again. Anyone got tips about going out on dates with exes?
I can feel your nervousness. It is normal since you have not dated already for a long time. Just try to remember the things you did when you first dated before. I suggest you go together and watch the sunset at the bay.

December 25, 2018, 10:22:47 AM
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faithuy56


My ex-girlfriend and I reconnected recently. We message each other again and flirt occasionally. Kind of like the time before we got together. To cut the story short we agreed to try going out again. We’re going out a week from now and I’m pretty excited to meet her again, but REALLY nervous too. I don’t understand why I feel this way. We’ve been together before already but I don’t know. It still feels like the very first time. Lol. Everything seems a foreign to me again. Anyone got tips about going out on dates with exes?
I suggest you give her a romantic date at the beach at night. Spend time with her affirming your love nd affection to her. Love is spelled time.

December 26, 2018, 12:59:19 AM
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alymae


How did you break up before? You seem to be on good terms with each other now so, I guess the breakup wasn't that bad. I can only say to bring her to a place where you were able to make happy memories before. Avoid, in any means, bringing her to a place that might cause bad memories. Just be yourself and show her that the date is all about her.

December 26, 2018, 10:37:20 AM
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menchuuy58


My ex-girlfriend and I reconnected recently. We message each other again and flirt occasionally. Kind of like the time before we got together. To cut the story short we agreed to try going out again. We’re going out a week from now and I’m pretty excited to meet her again, but REALLY nervous too. I don’t understand why I feel this way. We’ve been together before already but I don’t know. It still feels like the very first time. Lol. Everything seems a foreign to me again. Anyone got tips about going out on dates with exes?
I suggest you give her a romantic date at the beach at night. Spend time with her affirming your love and affection to her. Love is spelled time.
That is right. What matters most in your date is the time that you will spending with each other. It is not the food or the beautiful place that counts. You just give it your all in order to make her fell special and happy.

December 26, 2018, 10:46:17 AM
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faithuy56


My ex-girlfriend and I reconnected recently. We message each other again and flirt occasionally. Kind of like the time before we got together. To cut the story short we agreed to try going out again. We’re going out a week from now and I’m pretty excited to meet her again, but REALLY nervous too. I don’t understand why I feel this way. We’ve been together before already but I don’t know. It still feels like the very first time. Lol. Everything seems a foreign to me again. Anyone got tips about going out on dates with exes?
I can feel your nervousness. It is normal since you have not dated already for a long time. Just try to remember the things you did when you first dated before. I suggest you go together and watch the sunset at the bay.
That is a nice suggestion. I remembered our first date was in a pizza restaurant. It was because it was a new restaurant in our city before. They also have great food.

December 26, 2018, 08:23:48 PM
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My ex-girlfriend and I reconnected recently. We message each other again and flirt occasionally. Kind of like the time before we got together. To cut the story short we agreed to try going out again. We’re going out a week from now and I’m pretty excited to meet her again, but REALLY nervous too. I don’t understand why I feel this way. We’ve been together before already but I don’t know. It still feels like the very first time. Lol. Everything seems a foreign to me again. Anyone got tips about going out on dates with exes?


Treat this as a brand new relationship opportunity. Your old one is now dead and buried. Recall fond memories "Hey, you remember that time..." but don't go overboard and try to recall all of them. Only a few that you remember being memorable for both of you. Don't bring up things from the past that may have caused the break up. If she brings something up that seems negative, politely respond by saying, "Hey I really understand how you feel, but that was the past and I'd rather to talk about the present." 

Don't inquire about her relationships between the time you broke up and now. Show interest by asking her questions about herself and what she has been up to. Tell her a little about what you've been up to but don't make it all about yourself.

Take things very slow and remember, she agreed to meet up with you so she is interested in you! Good luck my friend, I hope it turns out to be the beginning of something great and everlasting...
Falling in love is easy...falling out of love when you don't want to is near impossible!

December 27, 2018, 10:33:48 AM
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ghednepo


Bring her to the most memorable place that you know and tell her all the words that you want to say that is so sweet

December 27, 2018, 11:15:56 PM
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NoviceNinja


I think you should bring her to a romantic date because first date is so memorable, anything can happen so do your best to make it sweet and remarkable
Technically, it's not their first date anymore since she's her ex. But I get your point.

December 28, 2018, 10:03:39 AM
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ghednepo


I think you should bring her to your favorite place and express all your feelings to her

January 09, 2019, 08:46:08 PM
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ThorC


Be casual, you already know what she likes etc. so I´d make her remember the good times, some funny things you both were both part of etc. "Remember when [name] fell in the bush at [name´s] party? he/she was so drunk"

 

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