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September 12, 2018, 01:10:49 AM
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dsirecarter30


I met this woman through my top foreign dating coach. He matched us up after explaining that based on my interests and hobbies, she is the most perfect match for me. Anyway, we’ve been talking to each other on Instagram and Messenger, and have scheduled a date for this weekend. I’m feeling nervous, yet excited at the same time. Any creative ideas for our first date together? I don’t wanna bore her with the usual “movie-dinner-drinks” routine that most dating couples do. I wanna show her a good time and have an unforgettable date with this woman. I’m open to any ideas or tips

September 12, 2018, 04:35:14 PM
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I met this woman through my top foreign dating coach. He matched us up after explaining that based on my interests and hobbies, she is the most perfect match for me. Anyway, we’ve been talking to each other on Instagram and Messenger, and have scheduled a date for this weekend. I’m feeling nervous, yet excited at the same time. Any creative ideas for our first date together? I don’t wanna bore her with the usual “movie-dinner-drinks” routine that most dating couples do. I wanna show her a good time and have an unforgettable date with this woman. I’m open to any ideas or tips

The first date should give you the chance to speak, without any distractions, as this is essentially the 'are we compatible stage'. Do you both share the same interests? Are you both at the same stages in your lifes etc.

You need to use this time to figure out if she's the one for you and if you'd like to potentially pursue a relationship with this person.

A drink in a quiet place is a good ideal, or a meal.

The second date should be more relaxed, like the cinema or something!


December 10, 2018, 06:39:28 AM
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amosgwapo


maybe you should go out and have a dinner then go to cinemas after

December 10, 2018, 03:28:17 PM
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NoviceNinja


You need to use this time to figure out if she's the one for you and if you'd like to potentially pursue a relationship with this person.

A drink in a quiet place is a good ideal, or a meal.

I agree with this. The first date should be more of the conversational type so as for you guys to know each other more. So dinner will be ideal. Skip the movie dates or theme parks and save them for later.

December 17, 2018, 08:44:31 AM
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Caguioa747


Don't just hang out, do something. Go for a hike if that's possible in February where you live. You can talk or not as you wish but at least you're not just sitting and staring at each other.

December 17, 2018, 09:07:31 AM
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menchuuy58


I met this woman through my top foreign dating coach. He matched us up after explaining that based on my interests and hobbies, she is the most perfect match for me. Anyway, we’ve been talking to each other on Instagram and Messenger, and have scheduled a date for this weekend. I’m feeling nervous, yet excited at the same time. Any creative ideas for our first date together? I don’t wanna bore her with the usual “movie-dinner-drinks” routine that most dating couples do. I wanna show her a good time and have an unforgettable date with this woman. I’m open to any ideas or tips
I suggest you hire musicians to play music around your table. Also let it be done in a private place where you could have dinner for two.

December 17, 2018, 06:46:21 PM
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I'm not a big fan of first dates to be honest. They are mostly awkward. To avoid that awkwardness I usually suggest escape rooms, bowling, maybe pottery class.. Anything that's not face to face dinner, those can be a real torture. I remember one time I went on a date (restaurant) with a guy and he was silent the whole time, it was really painful, but I gave him another chance and we went out. We went to amusement park an it was a blast. He relaxed, laughed, and had a grat time, and so did I. So, please, guys, entertain a girl, don't make her sit at a restaurant for 2 hours, plan a fun outdoors date.   ;)

December 18, 2018, 09:14:53 AM
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menchuuy58


I met this woman through my top foreign dating coach. He matched us up after explaining that based on my interests and hobbies, she is the most perfect match for me. Anyway, we’ve been talking to each other on Instagram and Messenger, and have scheduled a date for this weekend. I’m feeling nervous, yet excited at the same time. Any creative ideas for our first date together? I don’t wanna bore her with the usual “movie-dinner-drinks” routine that most dating couples do. I wanna show her a good time and have an unforgettable date with this woman. I’m open to any ideas or tips
Outdoor Adventures
Go for a walk – This is such a simple first date idea but most shy away from it because they feel like they must do something complex in order for their date to be impressed. Wrong! The only ideas you need to impress your date with are the ones that you articulate as your conversation progresses. If you are an interesting person and have found a fun person to spend time with, rest assured that a walk about town will be just fine. Remember, the idea is to leave your date wanting more. As a warning, you may be tempted to start talking about previous relationships. Don’t. That’s not how to get over an ex. Rather, enjoying the company of a fun new person without dwelling on the past will serve you best!
Watch an outdoor movie – Going to a movie is pretty worn out in the world of first date ideas. You can resurrect it in a fun way by going to see a movie outdoors or, even better, at a drive-in movie theater if you still happen to have one near where you live.
Create your own picnic – Pick a nice spot near where you’re meeting up and swing by a grocery store or take-out restaurant for some quick eats before setting up camp for food and conversation with your new favorite person. There’s no need to spend a lot of money. Picnics are supposed to be simple and you want it to be about getting to know your date, not truffles wrapped in gold foil!
Go boating – The idea of sailing on a first date seems like a recipe for disaster but something milder, like canoeing, row boating, or taking a paddle boat out on a sunny afternoon would work well. Admittedly, the last time I took a girl on a paddle boat for a date we both ended up soaking wet with marsh moss in our hair. It was amazing though!
Go for a run together – If running is your idea of a good time, an easy run with a new friend can make for a great date!
Volunteer at a soup kitchen – One of the best first dates I’ve ever been on involved meeting up with a woman at 5:30 am to serve breakfast at the local soup kitchen. Not only did we get to know each other better but we got to do something worthwhile that helped our community. It’s hard to come up with a reason why giving back to your community could be considered a bad idea for a first date! If you don’t have a soup kitchen or other short-order volunteer opportunity, be creative and come up with your own. There is always somebody nearby who could use some help if we are willing to give it.
Get up insanely early and be the first customers at your favorite breakfast joint – You’ll get a chance to chat before the restaurant gets busy and have time to do some people-watching when the regulars start pouring in. Note: If you find somebody who is cool with rolling out of bed early to join you for a breakfast date, it’d be a bad idea to let them get away!

 

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