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Author Topic: Am i overreacting

November 24, 2018, 12:10:10 AM
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Im in love with this girl we go out to concerts eat and hangout at least once a week. But when she goes to her aunt in phoenix she doesn't text me. I texted her on thursday night how was your day and no respond. The next day i text her good morning have a great day and again no response not even a good morning.the same thing happened last time she went away didnt here from her. It makes me feel she doesnt care about me.

November 24, 2018, 01:01:07 PM
Reply #1


I would talk to her about  it when she comes back.  If she is out of town with family she doesn't see often she may see this as normal.  Just ask her if she can call you once or twice while she is gone.  I wouldn't put too much stock in missed texts while she is out of town. I'm not always available when I go visit family. 

November 29, 2018, 10:52:37 AM
Reply #2


Hey, she might just be really busy, or maybe in an area with low reception? I say just relax and let her be for now. I'm sure she'll be happy to hear from you when she gets back.

December 23, 2018, 08:38:48 AM
Reply #3


Don't lose hope my man, Be patient, Love is patient. If that girl is for you then in future you and her will meet again and continue your lovestory. Just trust god and yourself be brave and strong WE ARE MAN

December 24, 2018, 04:17:55 PM
Reply #4


Maybe she doesn't want that anyone bother her when she is with her family, so maybe she just turns the sound on her phone off. Or maybe she was just busy helping her aunt in some housework.  However, you should talk to her when she comes back, you can tell her to call you just once a day, so you can know she is alright. I don't think it's a big deal and I'm sure everything's gonna be alright.
« Last Edit: December 24, 2018, 04:25:14 PM by dzonyfox2 »

December 28, 2018, 02:36:16 AM
Reply #5


Why don't you go talk to her? Ask her why she isn't even sending a simple response to your texts. Even if I'm really busy, I can still find the time to respond to someone's texts. Don't get too scared though, I'm sure she has a valid reason for "ignoring" your texts. It'll be fine.

December 28, 2018, 08:02:10 AM
Reply #6


Communication is key for a successful relationship. Don't be afraid to talk to her about it, but be careful not to sound like you're accusing her of something. Tell her how it makes you feel when she doesn't text you while she's on a trip.

It might innocuous. It might be that she's doing a bit of a technology detox when she's with loved ones. Maybe her parents or her family are the sort of people who insist that phones be turned off whenever they're together. She might just be tired; I've been in that sort of situation before.

She assume that she knows that her silence is affecting you. She might be giving you space to enjoy your holidays with other people, too. It's best to start up a dialogue between you two.


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