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Author Topic: Am I friendzoned or is there a chance she might change her mind?

January 18, 2019, 06:20:01 PM
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Met a girl from Bumble and here's how it's gone dating wise:

Sat 29 Dec - went for a few afternoon drinks.
Sun 30 Dec - Went out for a meal and more drinks, ended up staying over at hers kissing most of the night, slept together but we didn't have sex.
Mon 31 Dec - As I woke up at hers we took her dog for a walk in the park and spent most of the day together.
Tues 1 Jan - She came over to mine and we ordered Chinese, she didn't stay over.
Sat 5 Jan- Went for drinks, ended up staying at hers and we slept together, this time had sex.
Sun 6 Jan - Went for a meal and to the cinema.
Fri 11 Jan - She came over to mine and I cooked her a meal, she didn't stay over.

Didn't hear from her for a couple of days so asked what was going on, her response was:
"Sorry, keep meaning to message back my aunt’s staying at the moment. I’m getting nothing done. I feel we really get on and connect well which is what I’ve also been having some time to mull over, but I do think it might be more of a friendship forming than a romantic connection on my part."

I texted back with the following:
No worries at all and I can imagine it’s busy, hope you’re having a nice time though. Thank you for being honest and to be honest on my part, I do really fancy you and like you quite a bit so don’t think I could be just friends which I hope you understand. If there is still a chance let me know.

Any chance she might reach back out or should I give up all hope?

January 18, 2019, 06:51:08 PM
Reply #1



Things seem to be going great and for some reason things changed or at least on her part. There really isn't much you can do but wait it out.

I had something similar to your situation and to this day I don't know what happen. Things were going great. It felt like a real connection. Then suddenly she stopped texting and talking. I had no idea why. I asked why, but nothing. All I could do was move on.

I think your response to her was excellent. I wish you the best and hope it works out the way you want.

January 18, 2019, 07:00:25 PM
Reply #2


Thanks Winston, pretty much the way it went.  I suspect that she either just lost interest really, I guess the problem with dating apps is that the chances are they are chatting with and possibly meeting other people.  I guess she either wanted to explore her options or had met someone else.  Guess I'll never know.


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