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Author Topic: Am I friendzoned or is there a chance she might change her mind?

January 18, 2019, 11:20:01 PM
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richdeniro


Met a girl from Bumble and here's how it's gone dating wise:

Sat 29 Dec - went for a few afternoon drinks.
Sun 30 Dec - Went out for a meal and more drinks, ended up staying over at hers kissing most of the night, slept together but we didn't have sex.
Mon 31 Dec - As I woke up at hers we took her dog for a walk in the park and spent most of the day together.
Tues 1 Jan - She came over to mine and we ordered Chinese, she didn't stay over.
Sat 5 Jan- Went for drinks, ended up staying at hers and we slept together, this time had sex.
Sun 6 Jan - Went for a meal and to the cinema.
Fri 11 Jan - She came over to mine and I cooked her a meal, she didn't stay over.

Didn't hear from her for a couple of days so asked what was going on, her response was:
"Sorry, keep meaning to message back my aunt’s staying at the moment. I’m getting nothing done. I feel we really get on and connect well which is what I’ve also been having some time to mull over, but I do think it might be more of a friendship forming than a romantic connection on my part."

I texted back with the following:
No worries at all and I can imagine it’s busy, hope you’re having a nice time though. Thank you for being honest and to be honest on my part, I do really fancy you and like you quite a bit so don’t think I could be just friends which I hope you understand. If there is still a chance let me know.

Any chance she might reach back out or should I give up all hope?

January 18, 2019, 11:51:08 PM
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winstonjack


Hi

Things seem to be going great and for some reason things changed or at least on her part. There really isn't much you can do but wait it out.

I had something similar to your situation and to this day I don't know what happen. Things were going great. It felt like a real connection. Then suddenly she stopped texting and talking. I had no idea why. I asked why, but nothing. All I could do was move on.

I think your response to her was excellent. I wish you the best and hope it works out the way you want.

January 19, 2019, 12:00:25 AM
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richdeniro


Thanks Winston, pretty much the way it went.  I suspect that she either just lost interest really, I guess the problem with dating apps is that the chances are they are chatting with and possibly meeting other people.  I guess she either wanted to explore her options or had met someone else.  Guess I'll never know.

 

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