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Author Topic: Will his feelings for me come back after he sees me?

April 06, 2019, 07:07:44 PM
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Lilpete


My long distance boyfriend recently told me that he's not feeling it. Even though he loves me he feels something is missing. We were perfect throughout the three years of ldr. We're planning to meet up and spend some days together.  Will his feelings flow back when he sees me?

May 09, 2019, 10:40:21 AM
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Lovey


I think when you too are together you might EASILY rekindle things .
I've always felt my bf more distant when I'm not around, same LDR too .

I think it's worth hoping for a change in him but please, act quickly, communicate and don't allow him to break your heart if
he's really not "there" anymore. Keep your dignity just in case .

May 16, 2019, 06:57:04 PM
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CHi_pr15


I'm sorry to hear that you're going through this. I'm in your shoes right now. I've been in my LDR with my bf (I really don't know what to call him right now) for almost 2 years. Since around last October (2018) I felt us losing a bit of our connection. He's the first to say that he has stopped seeing a future for us, and doesn't know if he wants to continue dating. We haven't seen each other since my last visit to him about 5 months (super long time for us to not see each other). It was his turn to come see me. We just spent a week together; he left last night. The week wasn't absolutely perfect, but it made me fall in love with him all over again.

I'm made it a point to have a conversation with him before he left. I asked him if this past week had given him any answers. How did he feel about us after it? He told me he loves me still and cares about me. But he didn't have any answers to whether to break up or continue to work at our relationship. We both know what needs to be worked on for us to have a healthy relationship. But I was getting fed up and wanted him to know that I value my worth more than waiting for his answer. Our history of him thinking he wants to break up, but then doesn't commit has led to me feeling this way.  I kind of forced him to break up with me, so that we can see if it's the right decision for us. We are both incredibly heartbroken and cried the entire way to the airport to drop him off. He still texted me when he landed with "I'm home babe".  It's killing me inside.

I guess the point of me saying this all to you, is to meet in person so that you communicate clearly and feel the situation out. Finding out for sure is the only way you will know if you guys are meant to be together. Know what you want and don't settle for anything less than your worth.

I don't regret my bf (ex -bf) being here for a week at all. It was a happy week if that's the last I get to spend with him.

Wishing you all the luck!

May 16, 2019, 08:11:12 PM
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Rami Kamal


hey there where to begin, I guess I would say im sorry to hear that, but I guess my previous posts where people giving you condolences about the situatuion, but where to begin, to answer your question about his feelings coming back I would say yes it would definelty im giving you a guys perspective and I would say YES it will, Sadly from a guys perspective I would also say, he will think about the day he will travel back and it will break his heart and he will rethink the whole thing again, thats why I propose a solution that you might not like but this forum is desgined to share different perspectives of things and not comfy talk to subtle the mind and soul, I suggest you analyze yourself and see if you are that type of person that requires physical attention, Do you need him or anyone by your side or not and not only you but also him if hes that kind of person, If the answer is yes, to any side, I would suggest a reform of the relationship, an open one where your allowed to meet other people and so the other companion where you guys will figure out the following, that your the perfect fit for each other or that your need someone to be present there in every situation, all I can say and wish is the best for both you and good luck

 :)

May 17, 2019, 09:37:41 PM
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DepressedBlueberry


Seeing him may help, I know when I was having problems with someone I knew, seeing him in real life took basically all of the problems away. It may work, but it may not, just try your best with it. Sometimes things don't work out, but I hope it does for you!

 

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