My bf lives in another state, but we got involved long before he had to move for work.  Recently it's become apparent we want to be together and he is the love of my life. Lately we have discussed me moving there. However,  it's a place I have wanted to live a long time because I have family and friends there, too.
The trouble is my mother lives near by and she is starting to get older. I'm an only child. She has a boyfriend herself so I wouldn't be leaving her all alone but she would be very angry if I move.  I am in my 40s and never married and no kids.  I have found the man I've waited my whole life to find. If I don't move I will lose him. I don't think my mother would also want to move away. I don't know what to do.