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Author Topic: Upset at my gf for giving away my ticket. How do I deal with it?

March 31, 2020, 02:39:12 PM
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Ldrn


Hey guys. My gf and I were talking over FaceTime one day and she wanted to go to a concert that is coming up in a couple of months. I wasn’t sure if I was going to be able to make it so she said she’ll get me the ticket and if I find out later that I can’t make it, she’ll just sell my ticket. At the time I didn’t show toooo much interest in that concert but I still agreed to that because her siblings were going and I wanted to spend time with them all. And she knew I wasn’t too interested in it as well.

Fast forward to last week when I brought it up she said she gave my ticket to her friend because she thought I wasn’t too interested in the concert and her friend was a super fan. We had an argument the day before and I didn’t want to argue again so I told her it’s ok and I thought I was fine, but in fact I was not. I didn’t want to bring it up because I didn’t want to argue with her again. She offered to return her friend the money and stuff but I said nah it’s ok. But the reason I wasn’t ok was because she didn’t ask me before giving it to her friend and that made me upset

So now I asked her if it’s too late to give her friend the money back and give me the ticket because I realized I was going to be there in the city that week anyway. She asked her friend and her friend said that she really wanted to go. And my gf said “I take blame for giving it away but that doesn’t mean she(her friend) can’t go just because I screwed up”. I was like it’s ok I’ll just try to see if I can get a ticket to the concert.

I’m upset because she first didn’t ask me before giving away my ticket to her friend. And I’m also upset that she isn’t trying to make it up by offering to help me find a ticket. I’m also upset that she didn’t explicitly say “I’m sorry” but I’m not sure if her saying that she “takes the blame” is her way of apologizing.
I want to bring it up but I don’t want her to ask me why I didn’t mention all this before or why I’m bringing this up over and over again(because I’m not good at thinking on the spot and I figure out why after thinking about it) so how do I deal with this? I thought it wouldn’t bother me as much but it’s bothering me a lot.

March 31, 2020, 08:07:24 PM
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Poppy


Heya mate,

well, in all honesty, I don't think you have much reason to be upset. You weren't too bothered and this friend is a big fan...it just makes sense she'd give it to the friend.
If you gave her the feeling you cannot be arsed anyway really, why would she even ask you about something where she assumes anyway that you are not bothered?

It'd be highly unfair and immature to ask your girlfriend to get the ticket back now when her friend is a big fan and might not do any good for their friendship.
Your girlfriend asked YOU first to come with her, you weren't bothered, so don't whine now when someone else is going :)


April 22, 2020, 11:08:23 AM
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Jiries


HI

Could ha better not to buy the ticket in first place?

April 25, 2020, 03:19:45 AM
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