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Author Topic: Struggling emotionally with my LDR cuz IDK if we'll be together any time soon

February 15, 2020, 11:49:12 PM
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I have 6 years with a man. The first two we lived in the same city but different houses, the next three years we lived together, now I had to leave and start living in the US and we had been in a LDR for a little over one year now.

Because of visa issues (he was rejected) he cannot come, so basically we can only see each other two times a year for like two weeks. We have been dealing with the legal stuff but basically, with luck, maybe can be another year, but if there's no luck we might have to be separated for al least another 3 years (option not 100% for sure) or +4 (option 100% for sure).

I love him and we have lived so much things together but only thinking about being separated for so long scares the hell out of me. He says that he is going to wait for me no matter what, and I don't want to break up with him either but I have so many fears if this will actually work out... I think that having a clear goal is key but I don't have that and it's kind of messing with me. Have you dealt with something similar? What would you do?

 

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