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Author Topic: She is going away for ~10 months, how to make this work?

April 02, 2020, 04:40:03 PM
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Slight background information - we have seen eachother 3 times or so and have in communication for ~3 months (she lives out of state). Due to the C-Virus we haven't had real date for a month or so. We have been exchanging texts and phone calls here and there to stay in touch.

She recently found out that she will be working at her home country for up to 10 months and she can't get out of it even though she wants to.

I do like her and i did offer some ideas like if she can fly back every 3 weeks we can spend time together (normal company policy but who knows during c-virus?). I also mentioned when the virus clears up I can visit her there and we can also meet up in another country for vacation which she says "we'll see, i will definitely be taking vacations within 10 months".

I don't want to pressure her much or seem selfish for trying to "establish" anything but i feel something needs to be established before she leaves. With the quarantine i dont know if we can meet in person before then.. maybe i can send her off if possible.

What can I do? I don't know if asking her if she wants to work it out is putting too much pressure on her but I feel not establishing anything is dangerous too... I know we only met couple of times but i just have a good feeling about her and don't want to abandon it especially she could potentially fly back here every few weeks.

Any advice on what i can do to make her known i want to make this work?

 

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