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Author Topic: Same questions when texting

December 13, 2020, 12:00:05 PM
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BrianOM48


Hi,

I've been seeing a guy for the last few months. We live in the same city but he's been back home a lot, so haven't really seen him that often. Not quite a LTR, but kinda lol.

I'm starting to get a bit weary of the same questions like 'how are you', 'how's work', 'what are you up to'. every day. I know he cares but it just feels repetitive and sort of going through the motions. I don't mind every now and then, but it's every day. I don't always reciprocate the question to see if maybe he'll realise lol. For me, it wouldn't matter if we didn't text at all before meeting in person, doesn't really make a difference once we're together.

Should I bring this up at all? I don't want him to take it the wrong way, or for him to be overthinking before he texts.

I do like being with him, but don't really miss him when not with him, I've been single all my life practically so I'm happy on my own. It does feel a bit stop-start, he says he misses me, but then I think why aren't you in town, so we can see each other? Only seen each other twice in the last two months.

I've lived in different places and have travelled a fair bit, while the furthest he's moved away is 1 hour drive. Sometimes I think we might not be compatible in terms of open-mindedness, life mentality you know.

Any advice greatly appreciated, thanks

February 04, 2021, 03:42:34 PM
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TedyBo


Don't worry. You can send simple pictures with text and meaning as an answer to such questions. There are different topics, maybe he will understand that need to do something else or stop writing the same thing all the time. For example I use these images  https://www.maxaboutsms.com/good_night_sms.aspx but not always of course..:) sometimes if a person writes like this I tell him honestly what I think because this person is important to me. I like to send SMS messages with text in pictures because they are very cute, but you need to know the limit otherwise it will be boring.
« Last Edit: February 13, 2021, 04:23:26 PM by TedyBo »

 

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