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Author Topic: my ld boyfriend seemed to have suddenly changed, what’s happened?!?

June 19, 2019, 10:32:23 PM
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helenaggg


Before starting, thank you for your time reading this!
I’m a 17 years girl from italy and i’m in a ldr with an italian-german boy since almost 7 months now that i’ve met thanks to a cultural exchange with my school in germany in november. (you know we kissed in a party at his place the day before my departure and after that we kept texting till we really fell in love) Now we text less than we did during the courtship period, but especially than we did before he came here in Italy in may to continue the exchange.. we texted a lot with each other, u know, can’t wait to see you, can’t wait to kiss you as your boyfriend this time bla bla.. Maybe we text less because we’re into the routine i don’t know.. But lately it seems that what’s between us is slowly disappearing, but surely not because of me, i’m always there ready to text him, it’s rather him that is very detached these days, he hasn’t texted me ”goodnight” back since a few days (he did it everyday) i mean he’s been cold in general since a few days, he never saw my texts without answering, especially before going to bed. I don’t know what could have happened, because it happened all so fast and SUDDENTLY. However he confuses me.. the other day (before getting cold and detached) he asked me if i want to go to germany and stay at his place during the christmas holiday, i don’t understand him anymore. Am i paranoiac and do i think too much, or is it his character? But if that’s the reason, then why wasn’t he so detached and cold until a few days ago? Being distant surely doesn’t help, texting is the only way we have but if he avoids them then i don’t really know what to think. I also tried to talk with him about this thing some time ago, but he told me “see! it’s always me doing something wrong” (bc his exes made him believe this) “i do everything i can” then i feel guilty and i think instead that i am the one who’s wrong and paranoiac and we just stop and make it clear like if nothing happened.
Help me i need advice!!

 

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