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Author Topic: Long distance woes

February 18, 2019, 11:55:21 AM
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So me and my boyfriend are together since over a year and in long distance since 3 months. And it has been rough.It feels sometimes as if he doesn't care about me. Like sometimes he would be online on instagram but wouldn't pick up my calls or reply to the texts.When I asked him about it he said I that it is his space. Last night after he went to sleep I texted him saying that I was feeling down and sad and that I feel like crying.He hasn't replied since he woke up and it's been 8 hours now. I have also called him twice in the morning after the text but he didn't pick up but he was active on instagram twice since then. I feel like I should end it but I am not very sure.
He was the sweetest boyfriend before the distance happened and even when we met two weeks before. But the time between when he left and our meeting two weeks ago was also rough. We also can't meet anytime soon. The next time I see him will probably be at least 5 months from now.
Should I end it? I still love him but this isn't the first time it has happened.
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February 22, 2019, 02:23:06 AM
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hewylewy58


It sounds as if he has already checked out of the relationship, but doesn't want to be the one to end it.  Long distance relationships are tough.  Maybe the best thing to do is to call it off for now and wait until you guys are in the same space to give it another shot.

P.S. Try posting this question on the RGUE app (pronounced "argue") and see if you get some different insights.

 

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