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Author Topic: I’m confused...

April 03, 2019, 02:05:43 PM
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Lily Etoilé


Hi,
I’m on a long distance friendship but I think I like my friend in a different way but I’m not sure about his feelings...
We have been friends for a long time but to be honest, it’s a bit confusing because he has already asked me out and told me he loves me but we ended up saying it would be too hard because of the distance (there’s like 5 thousand miles between us)
But he also (I think it was after he "asked me out") talked to me about his ex-girlfriend, that he misses her and he still loves her so I’m a bit lost about what he’s truly feeling...
I would like to confess to him but I’m not sure it’s a good idea because I’m a bit afraid about long distance relationship... I’m not even sure we’ll see each other (soon or not) even though he seems to be.
So should I wait some time for him to know better about his feelings (if he doesn’t) to confess to him?
Or should I just try to move on..?
Do you have any advice please?
Thank you

April 09, 2019, 08:18:06 AM
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katlunara


I've had experiences with long distance relationships and they all never went anywhere. It's quite hard to not physically see/touch/speak to them in person. Its something i always had a problem with. I'm not saying it never works, it can but there's so much more effort to put into it on both sides.
Though in my opinion you should tell him how you feel.
I'm always trying my best to help. I may not be the best, just know that i have tried.

April 09, 2019, 11:30:49 AM
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Lily Etoilé


Thank you very much for your advice and your experience share! It really does help me ^^

April 13, 2019, 11:11:38 AM
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I_Dont_Know_WtFtoDo


You should always talk about your feelings no matter the cost !..It helps the situation and who knows something good might come up after this

September 09, 2019, 12:34:21 AM
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jorge


I think it's time to move on with your life. Don't you feel that?












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September 18, 2019, 02:38:10 PM
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lovejonlovell3917


I agree with saying how you feel... it'll get everything out and then you can go from there...

September 21, 2019, 06:16:04 AM
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Amalgam


You should definitely discuss how you feel with him

October 02, 2019, 09:24:17 PM
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mishey823


Long Distance IS HARD, but as long as you two love each other and are committed to making it work then it will. Communicate always and don't let your mind get the best of you.

 

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