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Author Topic: I would like more intimacy

March 02, 2019, 01:10:07 AM
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I’m in a long distance relationship with this girl. We’ve been together for a little bit over a year, and she moved 5 months into the relationship. We talked about if we should stay together when she moved and if it would be for the best for both of us or not. We decided it wouldn’t be detrimental, as we could continue talking the same amount and communicate just as well. However, I noticed right before she moved her attitude changed a lot in the relationship. She barely talked to me at her going away party, and the last time we hung out we made 0 physical contact. I didn’t want to say anything about this, as she was going through a move and leaving all she knew. So I waited. I mentioned this later and she was just like “I was struggling, I was moving and worried..” etc. but basically, that’s still how it is. I didn’t want to believe it would be good after she moved because I had heard that all LDRs become distant and such... but it’s true now. It’s 7 months later and i have been struggling everyday to be okay with it. We talk like every other day, and rarely call. Both calls and texts are STALE. I don’t know what to do to rekindle intimacy. I love this girl and it’s tearing me apart. I don’t want to leave her, because it could always be better EVENTUALLY. But at the same time, my hope for it getting better is fading. We were supposed to visit back in December (didn’t, she canceled due to family things) and now I’m stuck waiting until Summer. She’s always been one of those girls that is lowkey conservative in sexual manners, when she was here we wouldn’t do much sexually... we did some stuff with clothes on but definitely never went all the way, and I feel like asking for literally anything sexual from her would turn her away so quickly. But the sexual tension builds (at least for me). Any ideas? What would you do? Should I do something to save the intimacy, or just... not..?


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