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Author Topic: I'm done...

May 14, 2019, 03:36:15 PM
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Mim


Long distance relationship with a bunch of possibilities to spend time together. For 2 years all he wanted to do when we were together was cuddle... We never went on vacation or weekend together, never took me to theater, exhibition or whatsoever. All I heard was how tired he was and how badly wanted to cuddle me. I hinted and then confronted him about it. He did nothing except saying "let us go on a weekend", then went himself not on a weekend but on an overseas trip and then informed me that he's coming to visit and how much he desired me.
This time I got mad. It ain't going to continue. I said ok, I am free and I'll be waiting for you. What are your plans? He said idk, but I can't wait to see you and hold you in my arms, you know how much I desire you. I said pls do not bother coming, I have changed my plans and I'll spend my weekend with people who care how my day was and are happy to communicate with me not only through our skin. I may went too far, but told him I work mainly with men and amongst them there's no one who doesn't desire me, I am used to that and this is not my basic need but I really hoped that he may need something else with me. Did not wait for his answer, end the conversation and blocked him.
This is it. I'm tired of explaining myself all the time as if I want something exceptional and abnormal and him doing absolutely nothing.
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