I live in London and I'm in a long distance relationship for 1.5 years now with a boy living in Dublin. We meet each other once in around 6 weeks for long weekends and we both really enjoy the time together. He is very mature and such a sweet-heart so I would like to be with him in the future. However, the relationship is getting more difficult lately due to financial difficulties from his side.
My bf is non European so he is studying a degree (1st year out of 3) in order to have his Visa renewed and working part time. He is working only some hours in a coffee shop and really struggling paying bills, rent and uni fees. This has an impact in our relationship as I have to be the one going to Dublin more often because he has to work during weekends. Also, when we go out I'm happy to pay for both more times. He is really generous and he does pay sometimes expensive meals saying is fine even if I know he cannot afford it.
All in a nutshell: I really love the guy but I'm a bit tired of this situation because I also don't know how this is going to work in the future because of this distance, financial difficulties and his visa situation.