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Author Topic: Emotional cheating

March 07, 2019, 02:35:08 AM
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I've been in a long-term relationship with my girlfriend of 3 years now she's always assured me that she's in love with me and we had plans actually relocating together closer she was out here a month ago to see my band play in a Friday and Saturday night we brought my dad with us and she spend some time with him as I was playing but every time I would go on a break she would ignore me I didn't think about it too much until after she returned home about a week and a half later my bass player asked me if her and I were serious and I asked him why does he want to know and said that he had been talking to her on Facebook and she never told him that her and I were boyfriend and girlfriend . I asked him if he asked her that question and he said he did and all she said was who brought that up there's so much to it but the bottom line is she never planned on telling me she was talking to him and she lied about everything she talked to him he had a copy of the text messages they sent to each other she told him that her and I were through her words were we were friends and actually more than friends if she felt this way why would she tell him a stranger and why would she lie about talking to him she still lies about it what is she doing did she want him she said she was just lonely from going back home I said what you should have talked to me about it I'm your boyfriend what the hell

March 17, 2019, 07:33:13 PM
Reply #1


Oh wow that's very sad to hear. Some people just can't handle the distance. I don't think she was yours in the first to begin with or she wouldn't have gone off with your base player. It's very heartbreaking but try and move on from her. She will regret it one day if she felt anything for you.

April 09, 2019, 03:27:26 AM
Reply #2


Sadly long distance isn't for everyone. It's pretty easy to lie about things when you are in this kind of relationship. Been through it once before. Its sad that she would do that. She's not worth it.
I'm always trying my best to help. I may not be the best, just know that i have tried.


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