Why would my gf tell another man that our relationship is basically over she told him we were friends and we're actually more than friends and she's heartbroken now. when I saw what she wrote to him. On fb messenger i confronted her and she said that's not what she meant she said she thought we were finished because i hadnt contacted her in 3 days. she was sneaking behind my back telling this guy these things.why would my girlfriend tell another man that our relationship is over and then tell him not to tell me about it because she says we're not through and that's not what she meant when she told that to him but the fact that she lied about the conversation and never planned on telling me about their conversations.i found out from him about it..what is she doing?