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Author Topic: Are his feelings for me changing?

October 25, 2019, 12:03:23 AM
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Hi everyone,

I am in a rocky spot with my LDR and I can use all of the advice I can get. 

I have been in an LDR for 5 1/2 months, and everything had been going well up until a few weeks ago.  I went to visit him during one of my school breaks (I am in University), and after I came home something completely changed between us.  I am so confused because nothing happened while I was there, we didn't have any fights or arguments, yet he is now giving me the cold shoulder and being short with me.

I do struggle with separation anxiety due to things that have happened in the past, so for a few days I was a little more down than usual.  He was not being himself during that time, and not being the supportive and upbeat person he usually had been. I thought that he might be upset with me because I was upset, but I have since gotten over the transition and I am back to normal.

We still communicate multiple times of day via Snapchat, he always initiates but it is usually just a picture.  Very rarely do we have an actual conversation. Sometimes I will compliment him or say I love him in an attempt to cheer him up or make him smile, but he has stopped saying it back completely and ignores it.  He blames his actions and lack of 'lovey doveiness' on 'work stress', yet when he comes home after a long day he comes home to watch netflix and claims he can't handle anything else for the day which is his constant excuse for not being able to talk on the phone about this situation.

Do you think his feelings for me are changing? Is he falling out of love? What the heck should I do?

I am in love with him, I would take a bullet for him.  I am just getting frustrated with not knowing why he is acting the way he is. 

Thanks for all your help in advance.

December 07, 2019, 12:11:36 PM
Reply #1


I am honestly kind of going through something similar!  :'(

December 09, 2019, 12:40:48 AM
Reply #2


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February 10, 2020, 04:27:07 AM
Reply #3


Hi hun,
sorry to hear your going through this. It must be frustrating!

I'm pretty sure that his response regarding his work stress is an excuse. If he cannot handle both then he really should not have started a relationship with you.

It is unfair to make you feel like nothing was wrong when he was with you but then to go cold after. If there was something on his mind he should of expressed it to your face like a man.
I know you love him and I'm sure it would be very hard to let go but I think you should put your needs first.

I think you should law low and not contact him , test him a little bit if he does truly care then he might start making a effort and once he does express how you have been feeling! if he doesn't then you need to invest your time in someone who will make the effort.

Hope it all works out

February 18, 2020, 05:01:45 AM
Reply #4


I feel you :(
I'm in the same situation and it's so hard having to be treated like that.


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