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Author Topic: Alone in a relationship

March 05, 2019, 05:35:08 PM
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Lolita


My boyfriend of four years and myself are both in the military so you can probably guess how often we're apart so things like Skype were used almost daily.and I thought we were happy.
Recently his contract ended and he began getting ready to return to the states I thought skype but ofcourse I guessed he was busy so didn't want to bother him. Last month he returned to his home and I've had to almost beg for a text. I don't know what to do....Please someone help.

March 12, 2019, 03:36:11 PM
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remus


it is sad, try to talk with him about your relationship

March 12, 2019, 07:13:42 PM
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Lolita


I tried it was my first thought. I asked "are you mad" he said "no" I pleaded like a teenager for him to talk to me...he said he would but...nothing I got a cold happy Valentine's day text at the last minute but no call...I last spoke to him on Skype in ealy December I'm so tired of begging and crying.

March 13, 2019, 02:16:45 PM
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DannyMickel


 
Lolita, this time try to talk to him about your relationship. Maybe he is facing some personal problem but still if he doesn’t agree or not reply to you then leave him and start your new journey.

March 15, 2019, 07:02:22 PM
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Lolita


You're right I feel guilty for not thinking about how he might feel. I'm going to keep trying it hurts that he won't respond but I want him to know I'm here. Thank you

March 20, 2019, 11:22:10 AM
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DannyMickel


I think you are in real love, but got any feedback or reply/message? or he tries :( to talk to you or not...

March 20, 2019, 05:50:35 PM
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Lolita


No...he answered but just brushed it off...telling me I'm being silly and he has friends he wants to be with. I'm not trying to take that away. Am I wrong...an I being demanding for a moment of time just a moment...I promise an hour out of his week....

 

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