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March 18, 2019, 02:50:53 PM
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missg


Hi all,

I'd like to start a new thread off in this gay forum section for everyone to discuss, as I'm sure there are people out there who have had similar feelings or have done in the past.

I guess the easiest way to put it to you all is by saying: am I gay?

It's pretty straight forward and I know the terminology 'gay' is usually referred to gay men, rather than women liking the same sex, however, I wouldn't classify myself as bisexual, so i don't think it's relevant to be posting in the bi-curious forum. I have previously had feelings for men but now, I'm starting to have feelings for women too ... to the point where I'm just not interested in men anymore.

I have been feeling this way for a while and I'm only just picking up the courage to actually come out and say it, but as I have been a member here for a while now I think it's worth getting it off my chest ... as it is all anonymous after all!

There is a woman at work that I work with very closely, she sometimes flirts with me(i think) but she's married. She does, in fact, complain about him A LOT though and moans, so I'm really not sure what to think.

what advice would you give to someone that thinks their gay? Does anyone have experience with this?

March 18, 2019, 07:33:35 PM
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Frustrated


I would ask why do you think you are gay? Sadly, our society is media frenzy driven and the "in" thing is being gay. I know and have talked to many young guys who believe they must be gay because they can't get the girl they want or it's tough to get a date. The thing about gay guys (younger at least) is it's a sex thing. If they aren't getting it from girls, guys are easy to get once they believe they have crossed that line.

March 27, 2019, 06:33:21 AM
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JPK0007


Well, I don't think that there should be any problem for you to know whether you are gay or not because if you are gay you will always know that you are gay. Even if you deny it in front of the Society due to different reasons, deep down inside your mind you always know that you are attracted to men. However, in your case, it seems that you are attracted to both men and women. If you are Gay then you will not have any kind of physical attraction toward women. Moreover, I don't think anyone can get inspired by others and become Gay just because its an "in" thing. Being Gay is something which is not in your control.

May 24, 2019, 05:30:55 AM
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June 28, 2019, 01:40:17 AM
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LuisT


I also feel the same. I am a very shy person. I don't have that much courage to openly say I am gay.

July 29, 2019, 11:51:34 PM
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ARC


I would ask them why they think they're gay. If they have expressed desires to be with someone of the same sex, they might be at least curious. I'm kind of shy about asking stuff like that. I would have to listen to the person before I would know how to approach it. They would need to know that it is okay to explore their sexuality.

August 02, 2019, 12:30:12 PM
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October 14, 2019, 09:46:40 AM
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December 20, 2019, 06:59:25 PM
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Jingles


"Am I gay" is a question that you want to answer truthfully as quickly as possible.  It will be the best thing for your mental health.  Being gay changes everything in a way.  It takes awhile before you get to the point of not caring who knows, but there is no rule that says you have to tell anyone.

My personal rule is I only tell someone I am gay if it is necessary.  I don't hide that I am, but if someone figures it out I don't care or deny it.  I came out to my sister, but she had figured it out.  Some guys figured it out.  Some of them wanted to use me for blowjobs.  Some guys I actually did give blowjobs to, but living in a small town being a known queer is not really a solid life style.  I left and went to Boston and moved into a gay area.  It was like a breathing area.  It was a place for me to get used to being queer.

Coming out to me is asking permission.  You don't have to ask permission.  You just accept the consequences some people will not like you anymore.  Fuck them. 

January 08, 2020, 05:02:01 AM
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April 14, 2020, 04:04:50 PM
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Hi all!
I'm new here I'm gay and proud of it! I'm not quite sure what I will publish, but I just started dating again after most of this year I worked on myself. I'm over twenty, my last only relationship lasted 8 years ... with a gorgeous man. After breaking up online
Acquaintances fascinated me and I completely changed during this time !! I found a new love at http://gaystryst.com/
So I feel a little ignorant, but optimistic!
I would like to offer some positivity in exchange for a little advice, I think it would be great to make friends here - I am glad to receive a personal message, even if it's just chatter!

See you on the forums as soon as I stop lurking:)