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Author Topic: Am I gay

March 18, 2019, 06:50:53 PM
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missg


Hi all,

I'd like to start a new thread off in this gay forum section for everyone to discuss, as I'm sure there are people out there who have had similar feelings or have done in the past.

I guess the easiest way to put it to you all is by saying: am I gay?

It's pretty straight forward and I know the terminology 'gay' is usually referred to gay men, rather than women liking the same sex, however, I wouldn't classify myself as bisexual, so i don't think it's relevant to be posting in the bi-curious forum. I have previously had feelings for men but now, I'm starting to have feelings for women too ... to the point where I'm just not interested in men anymore.

I have been feeling this way for a while and I'm only just picking up the courage to actually come out and say it, but as I have been a member here for a while now I think it's worth getting it off my chest ... as it is all anonymous after all!

There is a woman at work that I work with very closely, she sometimes flirts with me(i think) but she's married. She does, in fact, complain about him A LOT though and moans, so I'm really not sure what to think.

what advice would you give to someone that thinks their gay? Does anyone have experience with this?

March 18, 2019, 11:33:35 PM
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Frustrated


I would ask why do you think you are gay? Sadly, our society is media frenzy driven and the "in" thing is being gay. I know and have talked to many young guys who believe they must be gay because they can't get the girl they want or it's tough to get a date. The thing about gay guys (younger at least) is it's a sex thing. If they aren't getting it from girls, guys are easy to get once they believe they have crossed that line.

March 27, 2019, 10:33:21 AM
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JPK0007


Well, I don't think that there should be any problem for you to know whether you are gay or not because if you are gay you will always know that you are gay. Even if you deny it in front of the Society due to different reasons, deep down inside your mind you always know that you are attracted to men. However, in your case, it seems that you are attracted to both men and women. If you are Gay then you will not have any kind of physical attraction toward women. Moreover, I don't think anyone can get inspired by others and become Gay just because its an "in" thing. Being Gay is something which is not in your control.