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January 11, 2020, 04:33:12 PM
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Amelia123


Through work I’ve been friends with this guy for a while (8 months).  We always got along because we had good banter and very similar sense of humour.  Never really saw him anything other than a friend. 

However I was off work for a while due to an illness, and found myself thinking about him ALOT.  I found myself on the day I was due to return to work looking forward to seeing him.

Our friendship seemed changed/different after I returned to work.  Gut instinct was telling me there was something there between us. I’ll be honest I do have feelings for him.

For months every so often he would ask me out for drinks and dinner, my response every time was NO: why? I don’t trust him something doesn’t quite feel right about the guy.  I ask him about his life he replies with what seems like lies.  He has my number but never messages or rings.  He has a bit of a reputation as a ladies man. 

Would I like there to be something other than friendship, of course but like I said something about this guy is telling me no.

Please someone help! What would you do???? Male advice???

January 22, 2020, 05:52:40 PM
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Jonathan92


something that i seen on steve harvey show, if ur gut says no, than it is more than likely right. woman have an acute sense of intuition and if something about him is telling you to stay away than you should. a girl should never be at the guys mercy, because if he knows that you are than he knows he can get what he wants out of you. ultimately if u want answers ask him straight up what his situation is, and clear whatever doubts you have on him, and dont show him anything until ur 100% clear of any doubts otherwise your just gonna get hurt and do u really have time for that?.

February 08, 2020, 03:00:22 PM
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Through work I’ve been friends with this guy for a while (8 months).  We always got along because we had good banter and very similar sense of humour.  Never really saw him anything other than a friend. 

However I was off work for a while due to an illness, and found myself thinking about him ALOT.  I found myself on the day I was due to return to work looking forward to seeing him.

Our friendship seemed changed/different after I returned to work.  Gut instinct was telling me there was something there between us. I’ll be honest I do have feelings for him.

For months every so often he would ask me out for drinks and dinner, my response every time was NO: why? I don’t trust him something doesn’t quite feel right about the guy.  I ask him about his life he replies with what seems like lies.  He has my number but never messages or rings.  He has a bit of a reputation as a ladies man. 

Would I like there to be something other than friendship, of course but like I said something about this guy is telling me no.

Please someone help! What would you do???? Male advice???

When he asked you out for drinks and dinner, are you sure it was a date and he didn't mean it just as friends?  What do you think doesn't feel right about him or what about his answers seems like lies?

February 26, 2020, 04:29:28 PM
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Mia8xxx


Hi Amelia123,

Give him short shrift and do not sell YOURSELF short.
There are plenty of decent, non-womanising, non- time-wasters out there that you could have the same attraction with!
Show this guy a lesson and move on to something better!
Remember......your intuition is ALWAYS right.

April 10, 2020, 01:41:08 PM
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April 24, 2020, 05:28:45 PM
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Gracetobe


Honestly, I would say listen to your gut. If it seems like he he's a ladies man, maybe he's not for you. I hope you find someone tho!

April 25, 2020, 02:51:33 AM
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BaseballGuy


Sounds like he is just looking for something easy and convenient if he doesn't try to text or call you. However, maybe you're the same if you're waiting for him to take the lead.

July 01, 2020, 03:33:29 AM
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July 01, 2020, 06:13:45 AM
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