Through work I’ve been friends with this guy for a while (8 months).  We always got along because we had good banter and very similar sense of humour.  Never really saw him anything other than a friend. 

However I was off work for a while due to an illness, and found myself thinking about him ALOT.  I found myself on the day I was due to return to work looking forward to seeing him.

Our friendship seemed changed/different after I returned to work.  Gut instinct was telling me there was something there between us. I’ll be honest I do have feelings for him.

For months every so often he would ask me out for drinks and dinner, my response every time was NO: why? I don’t trust him something doesn’t quite feel right about the guy.  I ask him about his life he replies with what seems like lies.  He has my number but never messages or rings.  He has a bit of a reputation as a ladies man. 

Would I like there to be something other than friendship, of course but like I said something about this guy is telling me no.

Please someone help! What would you do? Male advice???

Through work I’ve been friends with this guy for a while (8 months).  We always got along because we had good banter and very similar sense of humour.  Never really saw him anything other than a friend. 

However I was off work for a while due to an illness, and found myself thinking about him ALOT.  I found myself on the day I was due to return to work looking forward to seeing him.

Our friendship seemed changed/different after I returned to work.  Gut instinct was telling me there was something there between us. I’ll be honest I do have feelings for him.

For months every so often he would ask me out for drinks and dinner, my response every time was NO: why? I don’t trust him something doesn’t quite feel right about the guy.  I ask him about his life he replies with what seems like lies.  He has my number but never messages or rings.  He has a bit of a reputation as a ladies man. 

Would I like there to be something other than friendship, of course but like I said something about this guy is telling me no.

Please someone help! What would you do? Male advice???

When he asked you out for drinks and dinner, are you sure it was a date and he didn't mean it just as friends?  What do you think doesn't feel right about him or what about his answers seems like lies?

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Sounds like he is just looking for something easy and convenient if he doesn't try to text or call you. However, maybe you're the same if you're waiting for him to take the lead.

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