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Author Topic: Is this guy interested in me or just friendly?

March 21, 2019, 01:45:29 AM
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canadian700


I play rec coed soccer with this guy from my college. We are both 21. We have known each other for a little over a year. We used to both be very shy/awkward around each other, but we both are social with everyone else. About 6 months ago, he added me on social media and the past few months he has become much more talkative and will come up to me often to initiate conversation or tease me. The past couple weeks he has really started to tease me/joke with me and has silly (but not mean) nicknames for me. He doesn't treat any of the other girls this way. I can't tell if he is just being friendly and treating me like "one of the guys" or if he could be interested in me.

March 22, 2019, 12:29:03 AM
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plzno


Are you interested back? Because if you are, I suggest you do something like this if you can.

Jokingly make date plans with him, like something unrealistic if that's not out of character. For example:

"I'm kinda broke. Wanna rob a bank?"

"Sure, I also need the cash."

"It's a date."

And depending on how he reacts to you declaring it a date, you can judge pretty well. If he seems enthusiastic, I'd say you can go ahead and make some real date plans.

It won't get too awkward if he doesn't either since you were joking all along.

March 30, 2019, 05:56:25 AM
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MarkDaly71


Sounds like he's interested in you to me. Maybe flirt with him and see how he responds.

 

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