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Author Topic: Do girls bully boys they love?

February 22, 2020, 02:49:18 PM
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wanderer


I heard that some girls like to bully boys they love? In Kazuo Ishiguro's novel Never Let Me Go the main character says something like that.

As far as I understand, that would be a kind of way to test the boy's patience. A boy who really loves the girl would tolerate her bullying.

Is it right?

I'm asking this because there is a girl who sometimes show signs that she likes me, and then she suddenly treats me with despise. Is she doing that because she loves me?


March 20, 2020, 05:56:19 AM
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I think that the important thing that you would need to ask yourself is if you would want to be treated like that.  I cant help but think that if she is treating you like that before the relationship starts, what is it going to be like during the relationship.  Relationships should be about loving, caring and mutual respect rather than bullying.

April 02, 2020, 02:12:45 PM
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abcde888


I don't think that's usually the case. Maybe tease, yes but not bullying that would affect the guy's self-confidence.

April 03, 2020, 05:49:34 AM
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LilyPouille


you don't bully the person you love, you actually care about them. You can tease but not hurt the other person.
Kazuo Ishiguro is a great writer! In my sassy girl an other film, the girl teases or bully the boy (you decide) because there are psychological reasons to this. Whatever the reason is, if a girl truly, sincerely likes you, she won't treat you this way to see if you are a patient guy. No one deserves to be treated this way.
Live. Just live.

 

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