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December 17, 2018, 07:16:30 PM
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nb2019


I liked a guy in class and went on 1 official coffee date and hung out with him many times in the college library .However when I asked him about our relationship status he said that we are not dating but are hanging out.Please note he has kissed me thousand times.However he gets super jealous when i talk to my male colleagues . Any clue whats going on in his mind?

December 21, 2018, 05:01:56 PM
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jd63


Hi there! Sorry to hear you're having troubles with this guy. To me, it seems like he is having trouble or wants to be non-committal.

From your post I can't tell if he is only spending time with you or does he have time away from you that he could be spending with other people? Maybe he wants to have his options open, thus you two are only "hanging out." Which is a bunch of junk if you ask me. If you are only hanging out then he has no reason to be jealous of you talking to anyone else.

My thoughts are if you want to be exclusive with this guy then you should voice that to him. If he still seems non-committal, then you need to accept that, however you can also then stop accepting or refuse his kisses. Maybe seek dates with others. These things will force him to either man up and commit to you / be exclusive or it will make it clear that he never had any intention of being exclusive with you.

While this might hurt if he doesn't intend to take that step with you, it will be much better off to figure that out now rather than in weeks, months, or even years when he does find someone else to be exclusive with.

Best of luck to you and remember to keep your chin up! There is someone out there that will treat you like a queen. Always remember that.

January 09, 2019, 11:19:52 AM
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missg


I liked a guy in class and went on 1 official coffee date and hung out with him many times in the college library .However when I asked him about our relationship status he said that we are not dating but are hanging out.Please note he has kissed me thousand times.However he gets super jealous when i talk to my male colleagues . Any clue whats going on in his mind?

Do you have any update on this @jd63 - how are things? Has he decided if you're both officially dating yet?!

January 13, 2019, 01:10:06 AM
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Greyg88


I would say it is only a friendship love between you and your friend, nothing more than that   :P

March 11, 2019, 01:43:04 PM
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DannyMickel


I agree with you Greyg88 it’s a friendship love. Dating is a stage of romantic relationships in humans whereby two people meet socially with the aim of each assessing the other's suitability as a prospective partner in an intimate relationship or marriage.


 

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