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Author Topic: Dating My Friend's Dad NEED ADVICE!

February 24, 2019, 11:49:03 AM
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blush_morningstar


Hello Everyone! I am having somewhat of a moral dilemma and am in desperate need of relationship advice!! 

I have been dating my childhood friend’s dad for a while now, and am completely in love! Problem is, since she left town for college, she doesn’t know that we have been building a relationship. Growing up, I always saw him as my friends dad and he was married at the time. We have since reconnected as two single adults in recent years and started our romance! He really is my dream guy! We are extremely serious and considering marriage, and maybe even starting a family together! He is 30 years my senior so the time is ticking and that window of opportunity to start our future together is closing fast. We want to be upfront with our families. 

My questions are: 
Has anyone else been in a similar situation, either dating a friend’s parent or family member?
How did you break the news to your family?
Also, were you able to still remain friends in the process? 


I really want our relationship to work, so any and all advice would be appreciated! Please help & be kind! Thank you!

March 21, 2019, 01:47:32 AM
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canadian700


You are wanting to start a family and a life with her dad, yet you haven't even told her y'all were dating? I don't see that going well since y'all haven't been honest from the very beginning. If I were in that situation, I would be very upset and hurt. I would talk to her ASAP, but I would be prepared that things won't be received well considering the circumstances. Best of luck!

April 09, 2019, 12:15:53 AM
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dawills2002


It's too awkward. Just don't do it because it will backfire on you. Your friendship will not last if you do it.

May 27, 2019, 07:36:44 PM
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okkkorniienko


All the comments upon me is right.
I think you had to tell your friend first and then try to build something.

 

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