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Author Topic: Can being single for a long period of time mentally drain a person?

February 18, 2020, 01:05:07 PM
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Bruinsrock11


I am 25 and never had a girlfriend. I've been on POF and OkCupid for 7 years. The women on there talk with me for 3 months then they agree to a date only to cancel it 24 hours before it happens then blocked me with no explanation. I am afraid to talk to women in real life because of my Asperger's.

But anyway I have major depression and have to see a therapist now because of this.

February 21, 2020, 02:21:30 PM
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GinjaNinja


I think it can be mentally draining. I know it has for me, but that’s because you fixate on that for most of your free time. Being in a relationship is a very fun thing, but if all you do is think about how your single, you’ll throw yourself into a pit of despair.

I don’t know how girls think on this, but I found myself getting into more relationships and talking to women more when I didn’t care too much being single. If you take the time to let the pieces start coming together as opposed to trying to force them together, you’re more likely to find a connection with someone that is deep and genuine and will last as opposed to jumping to the first people who match with you.

I hope this helps! :-)
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