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Author Topic: Why did I stop liking the guy i'm dating?

August 01, 2019, 04:02:48 PM
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dissonance


So, here's the situation
I met this guy on tinder a while ago and we talked over Snapchat for about a month before we actually met. He's not my typical type, he's a more bulky muscular dude than the typical edgy lanky boys I'm attracted to.
 I've now been on three dates with him, one where we met at a coffee shop and talked, one where we got high ate burgers and watched a movie, and one where we went to a party on the beach with some of my friends.
The last two dates ended with some kissing and each time I've not asked him to take it any further and once the date is over and I'm inside my house I'm super relieved and kind of repulsed by the thought of seeing him again or being intimate with him..
I've never had sex before and I have anxiety, so its very possible that I'm just self sabatoging because I'm nervous and as I get to know him better and do more things with him these yucky feelings will fade, but is it fair to him to keep trying when I don't really want to? Am I just being shallow?
He doesn't hide the fact that he is attracted to me and he seems to like me a lot but I feel bad for being annoyed when he says I'm cute 😭

 

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