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Author Topic: Should a (Somewhat) Bad Girl go for the Good Guy?

March 30, 2020, 08:20:21 PM
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I’m a 29 thin skinned narcissist, raised by a thick skinned narcissistic mom (my dad was normal so I am a decent human don't worry lol)

I have been talking to a 30 yr old guy who literally is what I said I wanted looks wise, conversation wise, he is smart, spiritual, knows his natal chart, good career prospects etc

COULD BE my husband kind of deal...... the only problem is that..... he is…. too nice??!

Am I crazy to think that I would like him more if he was colder/neglecting/had tattoos/went to prison? (I actually drew fake neck tattoos and jewelry on him in photoshop and I was more attracted already).

We’ve never met (he lives in another city) so I’m worried about our sexual compatibility as some photos of him he looks so nice I get “the Ick” feeling

Should I wait until his dark side comes out? (assuming he has one)

Should I go with my childhood comfort and experience a familiar high by dating a thin skinned narcissist instead or go for the Good?

Am I really just a vain person and all can be solved if he really does get tattoos and starts wearing jewellery?

What if my sexuality is linked to neglect and I can’t feel as sexual with a Nice guy vs a Bad boy?

Any experience with this ladies?

Much appreciated as I am very inexperienced with dating and I've only had 1 boyfriend and 1 friends with benefits in my entire life.

 

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