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Author Topic: IN NEED of advice..Is he serious about me?

February 21, 2019, 02:38:53 AM
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I met this guy on a dating website and started talking 11 days ago. I know it might sound crazy, but I do think I have strong feelings for him.

We’ve been having nice conversations for a while. He then admitted he likes me and asked me if I feel the same.
He told me he really likes me that he is not playing games. He was looking at the tickets in March as he wants to fly to my country to meet me in person.(We’re both in Asia) He would like me to be his gf. He said you are very nice to talk to, very cute and hot. I like you a lot, mentally and physically.

He said maybe you need more time, but I want to make my intentions clear. When I go to your country, I want to spend time with you in dates, in private, kissing etc. (he mentioned he wanted to visit my country before he told me he likes me as he heard it’s beautiful)And if we became a relationship, I’d be willing to adjust either stay in your country or to sort sth out(so that you know I am serious)

Then we moved to kik and continued talking on that day, but he has disappeared for 3 days since then (it happened when I was talking to him on the website before, he has his own business so I’m really not sure if he’s busy or what..) but I checked he didn’t even open the app as the messages haven’t been delivered to him yet.

I know I shouldn’t have any expectations, but I really don’t know if he’s just fooling me around or he’s serious as he pulls a disappearing act without saying anything when everything is going well...could you please give me some advice? Thank you. 
« Last Edit: February 21, 2019, 04:30:17 AM by ttgirl520 »

February 22, 2019, 04:39:03 PM
Reply #1


I think in the first instance you should be very wary when someone makes such full-on statements so soon. It's good that he made his intentions clear, but he was also setting up such high expectations when you haven't even met in person.
I think you should take it as a massive red-flag that A. He was so quick to suggest he would move to be close to you, and B. That he has now disappeared.

In my opinion, there are red-flags all over this situation. I think you need to not allow yourself to get caught up in the romance of it, and try and look at it dispassionately. I know that's so hard to do when you think you're falling for someone.

My advice would be to spend no more time thinking about him, move on and meet other people, and be very wary if he gets back in touch.

Good luck x


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