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Author Topic: Does he have feelings for me?

August 26, 2019, 03:58:21 PM
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I have a guy friend that I have known for 7 years. He was a speaker at a support group that I was attending for my brother about 7 years ago. We were both married at the time, but my ex-husband and I reached out to him about getting some help for my brother. Fast forward a few years after that, I ran into him at a convention I was volunteering at and he mentioned that he was starting a non-profit to help people like my brother and asked me to join his board. So, it was him, myself and another mutual friend that were the board members. We worked for about a year on this. He also attended a court hearing with me for my brother and came to my brother's house one time to help me with an incident.

I have been divorced for over 3 years and ran into him on occasion, but never looked at him romantically because he was still married. He recently went through a divorce and some other traumatic events. I sent him a message about 5 months ago and told him I was praying for him.

He suddenly reached out to me a couple of weeks ago and told me he was visiting the church I attend and wanted to know if I was there that particular morning. He must have really researched it through social media to determine that I go there because I never told him. I think I had a post on FB about my church a couple of years ago.

Then, I randomly ran into him on Saturday at the grocery store. (He just moved to my side of town). He asked me if I was going to church on Sunday and to let him know if I was. I messaged him later that night and told him I was planning to go yesterday morning. He told me he would message me when he got there. So, we sat together at church and then afterwards he asked me if I wanted to go to lunch. We talked nonstop for 2 hours at lunch and had a great connection. He messaged me last night thanking me for listening to him. He talked about going to church again together.

I'm not sure what to think of this. Is he just looking for a friend to talk to or has he had some hidden feelings for me through the years? Would this be considered a date? I overanalyze everything, but it is something I never expected to happen.

September 15, 2019, 06:21:11 PM
Reply #1


He wants ti spend time with you but you should give more data about the way he flirts. At least he is trying to get closer to you amd taking steps. I think you have the power to turn it into a flirt, dating if you don't hesitate and take a step.

September 24, 2019, 10:49:07 AM
Reply #2


As for me, I think he wants a friend to lean on. However if his action is different from what other friends do,  then maybe he has a little bit feelings for you. Or his feelings may develop for you


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