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Author Topic: Did I see it wrong? Was he being sweet or weird?

January 10, 2020, 11:59:14 AM
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ScarletOHara


I met a guy on a dating app, some days ago. He seemed very cultural inclined and he didn't ask the standard questions like : "Where are you from?" or "what are you looking for in this app?" We straight up began a very nice cultural conversation on cinema and food and similar interests. He was, lets say, different from other men on the app. I was enjoying getting to know him and we texted everyday (this is very recent).

Two days ago he said: I have something to ask you later on. And I answered : Well, what is it? And he kinda played the flirt card for the first time saying: Oh you're curious... Ill tell you later.

And because I am a very impatient and suspicious person I admit I waited until he got off work to know what that was.

He then said: I would like you to take a selfie of you just for me. A normal one just to have it with me and that is my own.

Well... I've been fooled so much lately that I don't know if I interpreted the request wrong but I just answered with three question marks and didn't respond or sent the picture.

Next morning he texted " Good Morning! You didn't text me back yesterday and I hope you are ok. If it was something I said Im sorry I didnt mean to hurt you. Have a beautiful day" - quite charming.

And I was so cold responding hours later with: "Hey. Ok. bye"

Was I rude? Was he being weird or just sweet and I just ruined it because I'm a mess??? Should I say something back now?
« Last Edit: January 10, 2020, 12:11:26 PM by ScarletOHara »

January 11, 2020, 09:40:49 PM
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Amelia123


He did nothing wrong  in my opinion it wasn’t weird.  He just wanted a picture of you for himself.  Your reply back to him was harsh there was no need for that!

January 13, 2020, 01:42:16 PM
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ScarletOHara


He did nothing wrong  in my opinion it wasn’t weird.  He just wanted a picture of you for himself.  Your reply back to him was harsh there was no need for that!

Thank you! I really need to work on that.

I did apologize for my answer and he totally understood :)

 

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