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Author Topic: Did He Change His Mind and Want Something Serious With Me? Should I Ask Him?

March 26, 2020, 08:42:25 PM
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I've known this guy for a little more than a month now. After our amazingly fun first date, he told me he was looking for something more casual than serious. He was being honest with himself and honest to me, ideally, he wants something casual. I told him that I am looking for a relationship, but I am open to start off something casual.

We had been seeing each other every single weekend since we met. We also spent the "entire" weekend together. I stay at his overnight, but he has been staying at mine more. Due to the COVID-19/social distancing, we both work from home. We also never saw anyone else since we met besides our parents and mostly just home. Because of that, he had been coming over to my place and sleeping over. We have great chemistry and we get along really well. We both really enjoy our company. We cook together, we go out on walks together, and we do cute things. We are also very sexually compatible. Recently, he had been sleeping at his parent's house. So basically, he had only been seeing me and his parents back to back.

I feel like we are in a relationship. Even though he mentioned "casual" initially, his actions and his words after that contradicts himself. He obviously is so interested in me. He always wants to know more about me and he wants my opinions for things. He cares about my feelings too.

Also, first, he stayed over last weekend from Friday to Sunday. Second, he asked to see me again Wednesday night. Third, I found out he told his mom about me!! His mom knows he is seeing me! We later found out his mom is a regular customer at my dad's pub. He was so thrilled to tell her about it. She even told him to tell me to tell my dad to make him some good food.

The first thing that popped up in my head was, if it's casual, why would you even tell your parent's that you are seeing this girl. He skipped asking me to be his girlfriend, and jumped into telling his mom about me? Honestly, the more I see him the more I like him. Next thing you know is, we are seeing each other again tomorrow.

Should I ask him tomorrow to see if he wants to be committed to me? He told me last night that when it comes to these things, he is shy. He told me about his past relationships and the he was blushing all the way. I also find it weird how he wants something casual, but he always had long-term relationships.

Should I ask him tomorrow or wait?

Thank you!

April 02, 2020, 01:36:43 AM
Reply #1


I’m myself are still new to dating but I would definitely agree with all of his wishes and continue to have a fun relationships and if things are as necessary as they are he will eventually cave in. You never know it could be as easy as having a relationship within a month or maybe even next week. Just go with the flow on this guy and wait for the call

It seems that you enjoy his presence fairly well ha :)
« Last Edit: April 02, 2020, 01:45:18 AM by DreamGuyxo »

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