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Author Topic: Which signals are more real?? in person or text?

January 22, 2020, 03:39:22 PM
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Girl is a 25 year old coworker. I understand the risk and the discretion i need for chasing a coworker and is going to do it anyways. I also realize the best way to find out a girls intentions is to ask her out. But it is a coworker so I wanna be a little more sure before I do it. Do you guys think she is interested in me and if she is, how much?

Positive signals:
-Strong eye contact when we talk. Stands close to me
-Makes weird faces at me when ever she sees me looking at her.
-Likes to tease me
-If I laugh at anything she will nervously start fake laughing too and look at me.
-Told her I was considering going to England when she goes on vacation and she seem genuinely excited and told me " yes!
 Go I will show you around!"
-Asked her what she does on her day off and she says "nothing, just stay home and drink a little haha"
-If she sees me joking with another cute coworker, she seems to always have to make comments so I start focusing on her

I never get a chance to really talk to her at work so I decided to message her on Instagram:

-Me: hey i found out we might get our bonus at work.
-Her: really? I herd from HR we not getting it :{! What are we gonna do? :(
-Me: that sucks for me and you hahaha
-Her: I know! Now I don't know if I can afford to go on vacation!
-Me: I know, oh speaking of which I found some good deals for hotels for you.

THEN NO REPLY

I see her at work 2 days later. and she said "the hotel you picked was too expensive haha"

I decided at this point maybe she's not in to me and was just being flirty and was gonna give up.

Then 3 days later at 4AM IN THE MORNING She texts me first

-Her: hey I found out some new info! :)
-Me after I woke up at 10AM: really? What is it?
-Her: it's really good news!! :) :)
-Me: what is it hahaha?

THEN NOTHING AGAIN

2 days later I see her at work and I ask her "what's the good news?" She smiles big and says slyly "it's really good news" and nods

And I had to walk away cause I was busy at work.

So I'm not sure if shes in to me or just being a flirty coworker. And if she is in to me, should I message her again even though she technically never replied to my last text? Very confused lol any insights or advice is welcome haha

 

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