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Author Topic: Is this a no-win situation?

December 29, 2019, 06:55:35 PM
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I have been dating this girl for about two weeks now and we are on cloud 9 with each other. We clicked instantly and we see each other often. On the second date, she asked me why I was single and I told her that I had actually just divorced. She then asked so if there were any other major life things that I’ve been through, and I said no. BUT, I’ve actually been divorced twice - the first time was from about 10 years ago and it was a very dark time in my life as I was going through severe depression afterwards so I never ever talk about that time in my life to anybody.

Now, my question is, should I go back to her and tell her that I actually have been divorced twice but the first time was a sensitive time that I buried in my mind and chose to never speak of. If I do this, won’t I look like a liar? And won’t it ruin her trust in me since I didn’t tell her right up front?

Or, should I not ever tell her about the first divorce because it shouldn’t matter to anybody but me?

Is this a no-win situation?


 

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