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Author Topic: I love her, I think she loves me, but her ex is still in the way.

June 06, 2020, 08:15:25 PM
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NiceGuyMarc


Okay! Let's hope I don't make this a 5000 words essay, I will try to make it brief and straight to the point.

I met this girl quite a bit ago, probably like about 3 months, and I fell in love pretty hard for her. I think she's perfect to me, and she says i'm perfect to her. I'm the unfortunate nice guy, but it's who I am, so I just deal with it really. She is a bit "crazy" as in she has a ton of energy and we just match very well in general. When we hang out, we cannot not cuddle, we're always sticked one to another, we basically act as a couple, kiss, etc, but there's still a brick wall between us, and it's her ex.

The problem is; everytime it seems we're about to move to another level, she gets confused and talks about her ex and goes on to say she needs time. I tell her very often that we have all the time in the world and that she has the right to use how much time she wants to decide what she wants to do. I told her that I want her to be happy, whoever she decides to choose, she deserves to be happy.

Honestly - Huge gut feeling that she will go back to her ex very soon, and, out of selfishness I think, I don't want that, and I realize it now more than ever, that I love her very much and I have a very strong feeling that she loves me too.

To describe her ex: Very jealous, possessive, violent with words, and made her self harm. I don't know and have no idea how this guy could be any better than me, but it's the world we live in, and i'm so confused.

(We are all 20 years old)

June 14, 2020, 06:44:00 PM
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LoveDoctor


My friend, you said the right word; 'confused.'...in addition to being 'fickle.' You can't seriously consider taking this relationship to the next level, until she figure out what she really wants, who she wants.

Take a 'time out' from this situation until you figure out what you wanna do. But I wouldn't waste anymore time with this one. (Her mind is too scattered). Move on, before you end up getting killed by 'Bone Crusher!' Think about your own health & safety!
Ron Kennedy
TheLoveDoctor

July 01, 2020, 01:11:32 AM
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Agart1995


It seem that you are hurry and why you feel more smart and nice because love never think this. Love is connection of soul mate.

July 01, 2020, 06:22:36 AM
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MaryT89


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July 02, 2020, 06:15:50 PM
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zappieboy


Tell her how you really it will close deal for sure. Just do it man and slowly talk her that she must have a final words for her ex and start a new life with new relationship

September 08, 2020, 06:52:00 AM
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Jamess


If a girl talks a lot about her ex, it's not very good, you'd better leave her and find a new one, for example, on a dating site here https://ru-brides.com
I had a similar situation

 

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