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Author Topic: I love her, I think she loves me, but her ex is still in the way.

June 06, 2020, 08:15:25 PM
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Okay! Let's hope I don't make this a 5000 words essay, I will try to make it brief and straight to the point.

I met this girl quite a bit ago, probably like about 3 months, and I fell in love pretty hard for her. I think she's perfect to me, and she says i'm perfect to her. I'm the unfortunate nice guy, but it's who I am, so I just deal with it really. She is a bit "crazy" as in she has a ton of energy and we just match very well in general. When we hang out, we cannot not cuddle, we're always sticked one to another, we basically act as a couple, kiss, etc, but there's still a brick wall between us, and it's her ex.

The problem is; everytime it seems we're about to move to another level, she gets confused and talks about her ex and goes on to say she needs time. I tell her very often that we have all the time in the world and that she has the right to use how much time she wants to decide what she wants to do. I told her that I want her to be happy, whoever she decides to choose, she deserves to be happy.

Honestly - Huge gut feeling that she will go back to her ex very soon, and, out of selfishness I think, I don't want that, and I realize it now more than ever, that I love her very much and I have a very strong feeling that she loves me too.

To describe her ex: Very jealous, possessive, violent with words, and made her self harm. I don't know and have no idea how this guy could be any better than me, but it's the world we live in, and i'm so confused.

(We are all 20 years old)

June 14, 2020, 06:44:00 PM
Reply #1


My friend, you said the right word; 'confused.'...in addition to being 'fickle.' You can't seriously consider taking this relationship to the next level, until she figure out what she really wants, who she wants.

Take a 'time out' from this situation until you figure out what you wanna do. But I wouldn't waste anymore time with this one. (Her mind is too scattered). Move on, before you end up getting killed by 'Bone Crusher!' Think about your own health & safety!
Ron Kennedy

July 01, 2020, 01:11:32 AM
Reply #2


It seem that you are hurry and why you feel more smart and nice because love never think this. Love is connection of soul mate.

July 01, 2020, 06:22:36 AM
Reply #3


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July 02, 2020, 06:15:50 PM
Reply #4


Tell her how you really it will close deal for sure. Just do it man and slowly talk her that she must have a final words for her ex and start a new life with new relationship

September 08, 2020, 06:52:00 AM
Reply #5


If a girl talks a lot about her ex, it's not very good, you'd better leave her and find a new one, for example, on a dating site here https://ru-brides.com
I had a similar situation

January 27, 2021, 02:40:03 AM
Reply #6

saloni sharma

Self-love is the key. Your mental health is very important and it should be your priority.

January 28, 2021, 05:59:16 AM
Reply #7


Right now, you have the advantage because she is already dating you. If you do the right things, she will naturally stop thinking about him and fall more deeply in love with you. To achieve that, make sure that you.

January 28, 2021, 09:19:46 AM
Reply #8

saloni sharma

Make her realize that you can treat her than her ex. And do so.

February 21, 2021, 12:51:07 PM
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February 21, 2021, 12:51:46 PM
Reply #10


February 25, 2021, 06:54:57 AM
Reply #11


Her talking about her ex is a glaring red flag. You're simply the stand in for this woman instead of being her man. She thinks she likes you, but that's the problem. She thinks but doesn't know that she likes you nor feel the same way about you the she felt with her ex. She's clinging to the past rather than living in the present and looking into the future. She'll drag you down, dude, and you don't need that. I dated a woman a while ago who kept bringing up her one ex that really screwed her up, and she had all sorts of psychological problems. Good thing the relationship was called off. Find another woman who doesn't try to relive those days. You'll be much happier.


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