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Author Topic: Dating while being in marriage that fall apart

August 05, 2019, 05:40:24 AM
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LaurenceMathews


Hi! I live in Utah, me and my wife been together for 2 years. Those two years was really exhausting to me, we visited a family therapist and it's became clear that our marriage is falling apart because we don't share same interest. We are living apart for the last 2 month and we made, i guess, a mutual agreement that we gonna start divorce paper once we gonna have enough money. During those two month a met a wonderful woman and we start dating. My question is - should i talk with her about my divorce process? Also, if anyone alredy gone through divorce i would be very gretefull if you share your expirience with me! Maybe someone know  where i can get a legal aid or atleast consultation  before starting divorce process?

August 08, 2019, 04:16:00 AM
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Well, I have no idea how do work through a divorce, but in my opinion it would be better to talk about your divorce with her. If you hold this back from her after you started dating two months ago, it could feel weird for her. Its not like its something embarrassing. Also its sounds like you and your wife are on the same page about this so it should be a clean cut for both of you with as little stress as possible. Honesty is a big thing in a relationship, so telling her would be a good step in opening yourself up to her and showing that you trust her.
I hope I got a point that can help you and sorry if my english isnt too good, Im no native speaker.
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Sarah

August 08, 2019, 07:49:28 AM
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LaurenceMathews


Nah, it's totally okay, thank you very much for your support! I just scared that she would run away if she find out, we haven't even started divorce process yet. I'm really dumb when it comes to filling papers, i don't have enough money to pay lawyer that's why it takes so long to settle everything up. Is it okay to use agencies help for filing divorce papers Utah? I guess i have to talk with my girlfriend again, if you stick with the truth, it doesn’t matter how often you’re asked about the subject—you’ll always respond the same way, because you’re being honest about what really happened, so you trully right in that question. After reading the article https://letschatlove.com/blog/relationships/how-to-know-if-your-other-half-is-cheating-on-you/ i'm kinda afraid that she would consider it as a liying or cheating, so i hope she's gonna be okay with a fact that i was divorced before.
« Last Edit: August 08, 2019, 07:52:25 AM by LaurenceMathews »

 

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